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Holding Stops Freedom of Self

Addison Bell Uncategorized
😭 This morning tears flowed down my cheeks in the tiniest rivers. I was breathing into my heart chakra and I felt an immense grief break loose… and so I let it go.
😂 This morning I belly laughed and let the joyful noise fill my back yard. I watched as my kitten chased the leaves floating in the amazing breeze this fall weather has brought…. and so I let it go.
Holding, holding, holding…

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The O Frequency

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🔥The Orgasmic Frequency is not about SEX. 🔥
Last night I had a juicy time getting dressed up, eating tasty food, and having a playful conversation. 😋
Then today I am sitting outside…
☕️ Drinking some tea
💨 Letting the breeze take my hair
💥 Feeling energized in my body
💅 And with fresh nails to boot!
It feels great!
😌THIS MOMENT feels orgasmic.
It feels orgasmic because I’m choosing to tap into my life force energy and allowing this to embody me in the here and now.
Im allowing myself to feel it ALL.

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I Love the Hard Conversations

Addison Bell Uncategorized
💋 I love the ‘hard conversations’. 💋
The one’s where two HEARTS come together and share their truth, their needs, and desires.
💥Not from a space of blaming or shaming but instead from a space of open-heartedness. Of wanting what is best for self and also for the other person.
😔It’s often I think we get in a US vs. THEM mentality of competition when it comes to relationships.
At times things can’t be overcome in a relationship, but often we shut off the chance by not stepping out of our egos long enough to truly see/hear the other person.
I love the hard but heart-centered conversations because, while we might not like what the other person is saying, we know it is coming from a space of love and truth. 🥰
We are all dynamic and complicated humans that are simply crashing into each other’s wounding, ego, and hearts.
Communication and a true willingness to listen and try to understand another is the only way we can authentically connect.
😭Today, I had a hard conversation! 😭
And I applaud not only myself but the other person because these types of real, hard, and yet loving conversations are hard to come by in a very fake world.
A world where we would rather throw a relationship away instead of doing the hard work.
💥When we try to feel another human’s intent
💥When we try to hear beyond their words
💥When we get out of listening from the ego
💥When we give up trying to ‘win’
We will finally meet the deeper aspects of another and their truth. And that truth is beautiful… even if it’s not comfortable!
🥰I love the ‘hard conversations’ that are from the place of two hearts really connecting and sharing because they are REAL. 🔥
What are the conversation you are avoiding?
And are you having your conversations from a space of trying to ‘win’ and get what you want or from a space of heart?
💋Love,
Addison
If you are needing help with those harder conversations, your communication skills, and just wanting to shine your light in a deeper way then reach out!

He Was Ashamed of His Arousal

Addison Bell Uncategorized
💔He was ashamed of his arousal…
 
My hands lingered over my male client’s body as he allowed the flow of energy to overtake him. 💥🔥
 
🛑No touching… It was just me massaging his energy field as he surrendered deeper into his core.
 
I asked him to allow his breath to release from his throat chakra and he dove into a whirlwind of energetic orgasm.
 
My heart was wide open as I felt his flow and the beauty of surrender. 💙

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He Went So Slow I was Begging for Him…

Addison Bell Uncategorized
💥🔥He went so very slow until I was begging for him! 🔥💥
💋We had a beautiful evening and dinner of laughter…
💋Then a playful walk hand in hand…
💋Leading to a slow but passionate kiss…
💋Moving to a hungry kiss by the car and a slow question in my ear…
💥By the time we were in bed I was ready for him but he explored my body slowly. Admiring it like a divinely beautiful painting.
Slowly and presently until….
It hot, fast, and passionate!!! 🔥

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I Tried Women. I love Men.

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I tried women… but I always come back to MEN! 💋🔥

💥It’s true. 💥

I love the divine feminine and see such power, sensuality, and beauty in other women. Lifting other women up and getting to form sisterhood bonds feels so very empowering. 

👑Watching my fellow sisters shine is so orgasmic. 👑

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Manipulation & Mistrust

Addison Bell Uncategorized
🔥 “You don’t love me… you’re just being manipulative!”
 
🔥 “How dare you love me like that.
You must be trying to get something… or maybe trick me.
 
🔥 “Your love should make sense! ”
 
Beware, too much love towards others is considered wrong these days.
The second we step into loving someone unconditionally or learn to step out of a self-centered viewpoint to help others, we open ourselves up to criticism, assumption, and a skewing of actions.
 
😔Over the last few years, I’ve seen the distrust in relationships grow exponentially. As our society has become less relationship-focused and more “me” focused, people’s abilities to truly receive has decreased and mistrust has gone through the roof.
 
Even a mistrust in love. 💜💚

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💕👑Pre-Requisites to tapping into the Orgasmic Life Frequency!

Addison Bell Uncategorized
💕👑Pre-Requisites to tapping into the Orgasmic Life Frequency!
 
This year has been a year, thus far, filled with what can only be called a beautiful spiritual chaos. 🙏
 
A transitioning of so many aspects of my life!
🧚‍♀️And spirit continues to send signs that it is all beautiful and perfect… even in the less than perfect moments. 🙄
 
It has been a year of tears but also a year of miracles both big and small.
 
I’ve sat and watched people that I thought would always be a part of my world leave.
Saw truth and clarity about others that I had been ignoring because I am always wanting to focus on the best in others. 😈

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Desire is a Divinely Juicy Energy

Addison Bell Uncategorized
💥Desire is a divinely juicy energy!
 
❤️It is not a negative
❤️It is not sinful
❤️It is not wrong
 
It is what moves us forwards and calls the life that is meant for us into our lives. We were born in a state of desire and we are gifted with the energy of desire to guide us.
 
💥Desires alone are never a problem.
It is simply a recognition.
💕Sometimes we must question deeper within ourselves if there is a deeper desire underneath that initial desire that arises…
 
If you are desiring your partner to hold you and cuddle with you then underneath that initial desire might be a deeper more expansive desire for loving connection.

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