Stop F*cking Lying to Yourself…
You don’t actually care
And if you do care then it’s time that you take a look at your actions.
Or lack thereof!
Thank you for letting me give.
To those that let me support them.
To those that allow me to have their backs.
To those that open up their hearts and souls to me.
To those that allow me to take on the big or small tasks
To those that share their hopes, dreams, sadness, joy, past, and vision for the future…
You are locking your own energy down.
There is something in you that is scared to let your energy flow and to truly receive at that deeper level.
The self-made handcuffs feel more comfortable than making a choice to truly release.
And most likely you don’t even realize you are locked down. You have gotten so comfortable sitting in the energy you are currently locked into that you don’t even realize that you wear chains.
You want to be loved
You want to be desired
You want to be seen, heard, and celebrated
You sit wondering why it is that no one pays attention
Wondering why you are constantly sending loving energy out but nothing ever comes back at you
Why YOU alone in this world are not loved.
You striving and hustle
You beg and scream
I demand better than “normal” and the issue is that you don’t!
This week I have heard the word “normal” thrown out over and over again!
And the term has been used every time as a justification and a way to remove one’s guilt for not doing what needs to be done.
A settling.
An acceptance of the unacceptable.
Or actually it might be acceptable to you but it’s not acceptable for me or for my tribe.
Last night I was looking for something in my email from my mentor and in proper search fashion typed her name in the search bar. Up popped years worth of emails. I was curious and scrolled to the very bottom and began reading our very first coach/coachee interaction.
It hurts.
You want it so badly you feel like you are bleeding out!
You want to throw in the towel.
You don’t think it will ever happen.
It just requires too much work.
And it hurts!
Sometimes being a B*tch is the most loving thing you can do!
I’ve heard and read so many comments recently about people telling others that they aren’t being “loving” when standing up for their truth.
The most loving thing we can do as individuals is to own our truth and honor ourselves and thus others we are in communication with.
Love doesn’t always come in the form of…
💗Pounding heart emojis
☀️Sunshine
🌈Rainbows
💏Hugs and Kisses!
Make it happen.
Set the intent and then act as if it is!
You have to claim it from the Universe.