Why child sex trafficking?

This morning I was asked what makes me so passionate about this issue.

I mean more than the average sane person, that finds this disturbing.

In truth even the thought of child sex trafficking makes me want to cry!

I work with women and men every single day and hear horror stories about child sexual abuse and the damage that gas been done to their lives. Read more

You can get angry or you can get living!

The current world seems to have tons of things we can be angry about right now…

From our political situation, world health, financial crisis, to what we are seeing come out about systems supporting child trafficking.

Not to add in the things that our personal lives bring to us anger and frustrations with those we are in relationship with, in our homes, and in our careers.

And sometimes we NEED to feel that anger and recognize that it is present and that we are stirred by a situation. We need to feel the contrast.

BUT…

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Don’t you ever get tired?
Tired of holding it all together.
Holding it together within yourself and then trying to hold everyone else’s shit together as well.
Trying, working, hustling, planning and overthinking.

Keeping your body and mind tense and always focused. Hustling for your worth out of pure irrational fear.

Fear that if you were to truly let go that you would lose all control over your life and that it would spiral out into mass chaos. That you wouldn’t survive and that you would lose all those around you. Read more

“I have this, ‘thing’ sexually”, he tells me over a nice dinner.
So, I inquired….
“Well what is your ‘thing’ then?”
Then he glances at the table for a millisecond and then straight into my eyes, “I get really turned on by kicking my subs with steel-toed boots while they are on the ground. I try to be careful not to break any ribs”. Read more

 

Today, I watch as fruit and vegetables were used as some of the best sex toys around!!!

Lol, I ran my yearly Oral Intimacies in-person Workshop (there is a recorded version available on my site)
And for the lab/demo portion of this class we make use of cucumbers and mangos.

Myself and my co-teacher ask each individual to tap into the sensations within their bodies as they both give and receive. Now there is zero touching in this workshop and yet we hear again and again how it was incredibly erotic. Read more

I apparently have commitment issues!

Recently I’ve been told by no less than three people close to me that I have commitment issues.

Which obviously led this Virgo to psychoanalyze self and the idea of “commitment issues”

And the answer is that YES to the average person I can see how this could be true.
And NO it’s not an issue… it’s me being authentic and in integrity.

So I share this for my peeps that might relate and might feel the same way. Those that have been told they have commitment issues. Or those that have felt like they’ve been forced to commit to ANYTHING in their life!

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“I just want someone to sincerely love and adore me…
I just want someone that sees me and helps without question…
I just want someone that loves me even in my bad…
I just want someone that wants to see me truly shine…
I just want someone that surprises me and thinks about me…”

You look to the sky and pray to receive love Read more

This is not the article I thought I would be writing today.
 
After two trips. One with two women very close to my heart that was filled with an abundance of laughter and shennigans.
 
And the other filled with romance, passion, connective sexual moments, and such magnificent beauty.

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