I have a very soft heart
I am called every single day to add some beauty to this world and go to sleep each night knowing I made a difference.
I enjoy when I can tell people how amazing they are and share a true sense of love
 
However, sometimes love isn’t all warm and fuzzy
 
Sometimes sending out love is actually saying the hard things that will trigger negative feelings
 
Sometimes the most loving thing is to break someone’s heart
 
I have been blessed over the last few years to meet some truly amazing men in my world.

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“Doing Nothing often leads to the Very Best of Something” – Winnie The Pooh
 
As we get older we fill
And fill
And fill
 
Our time, our brains, and our hearts with busyness.
 
Our society pushes for us to always be doing something, getting something, and producing something.
 
If we take time to do “nothing” it is seen as wasteful. Sitting and daydreaming is often related to someone who isn’t focused and doesn’t have life goals.

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You sit there begging for the scraps.
Working and trying and hustling to get what you desire

Thinking that some level of self-torture is required

Feeling like you must prove yourself in some way.
Thinking you must earn it all…

You diet and force yourself to do intense workouts to earn your “splurge nights” and the ideal body Read more

It is often human nature to focus in on where we are personally still lacking and what is still lacking in our lives overall. Oftentimes this includes looking at the people in our lives and noticing the “squeaky wheels”. It is a noticing of all the times that people AREN’T there for us and we feel ALONE, NOT SEEN, IGNORED, and UNLOVED.

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💬I laid in bed with my computer on my lap and thought… “I should just go back to sleep”
💥Instead I peeled my lazy butt out of the bed!
💬I went to go put my running shoes on and thought… “My foot hurts, I should skip my walk”
💥Instead I finished tying my shoes and off I went
💬I looked at my computer screen and thought… “I don’t feel like I have anything to say and it would just be easier to skip writing today”
💥Instead I am here writing this post.
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