When we have kids or are around kids, it’s pretty common sense that if they ask a question or aren’t understanding a perspective, that we will talk at “their level”.
As a coach, I do this daily with clients because while pushing my clients to grow, I also recognize that they are all at different stage in their lives. More than that though, I realize that their experiences and foundations are different.
Though in my daily life with lovers, family, and friends. Sometimes I make efforts too come at those I love with the same understanding and at other times…
Well let’s just say that I lose this perspective.
The perspective of talking and understanding others from where they are at mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, not just to appease them but to expand self.
When we lose sight of that fact that every person has a different foundation and thus different neurological patterns for how they process and act, we lose sight of the other person.
Not only do we lose sight of the other person but we close down our own growth process but we also step into a space of self-centered. Centered in our own thoughts, feelings, desires, and not willing to open that view to anyone else.
And it’s a common thing in most relationships!!

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I see you
The world sees you
You see you…
And we all see YOU differently.
And you and each individual in the world sees me differently to.
Because how we view someone is based upon our inner worlds and the vibration in which we choose to live. How we view others has very little to do with them and all to do with us.
If we see someone in our world as uplifting and positive then it is because those are the aspects we are choosing to focus on in that other being. Read more

You “know” that your thoughts create your reality…
I mean you know from an intellectual perspective at least!

Knowing that our thoughts create our beliefs and our beliefs then becomes the current reality of our lives.

Law of Attraction has become a topic that has entered mainstream over the last decade and is slowly gaining attention from many.

Though many only embrace it from an intellectual level but are struggling to truly embrace it at a deeper level where they live from that place. Read more

There is a boat… are you on it?
 
Often times clients will sit in front of me and share that they are missing passion, excitement, and true desire in their lives. They look around and their world feels boring and mundane.
 
As we begin to dive into coaching work it often becomes clear that they aren’t allowing dreams and desires into their reality. They sit there stating they want to be happier and to live an orgasmic life… but they don’t stop to dream about what that ideal life would truly look like for them.

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I’m in bed with one of my lovers and we have been having some fun and playful sex. Not taking anything too seriously and just enjoying each others presence. I am riding fun orgasmic waves as the peaks just keep coming. I finally beg for a break from my own intense pleasure.
 
So we decide to switch positions in order for him to have the most sensation and to give me a break from my own peaks. This moment is all about him, I hear his grunts and his groans, and I love hearing his pleasure, it fills my heart up and turns up the heat of my own arousal.

I sit in a group of wonderfully gifted psychics. They share on what they see, hear, and are experiencing. They talk about these magnificent experiences that blow the human mind.

And as I look upon the same room that is apparently full of these experiences I see/hear a magnificent load of…. NOTHING.
Yes, I feel a heightened energy! But that truly is all. Read more