“How dare you love yourself! Stop it and stop it now”
How dare you take a picture of yourself and want to share your beautiful smile with the world.
How dare you be excited about your life and want to share the excitement that you are feeling.
How dare you be proud of your accomplishments and take pride in your work.
How dare you charge money for your years of expertise and training.
You really should dull your shine so that I feel better and that I don’t have to really take a look at how I am not living up to my own potential.
Oversensitivity shuts down our growth in health, racism, and our lives.
Do you know when I get a woman in my office that has been traumatized it is not uncommon for her clit to be so sensitive that she can’t stand to be touched.
Her husband or partner will go in with the gentlest of touches, with love, care, and compassion. Deeply desiring to help…
And she is still in pain and at times she get angry and lashes out at her man. Or she sits and cries and completely shuts down.
I’m only human.
I can’t read your mind and you can’t read mine.
We must verbalize and share our hearts to know one another at the next level.
To understand and have a better viewpoint of why we say or do the things in our lives… we must speak and not assume.
You and I can both make up stories in our heads about intentions and desires, but most of the time we are wrong.