I live to be naked!

I remember a time when I was so uncomfortable being naked. Even with myself.

It felt wrong. It felt shameful. It felt triggering. It felt way too open and vulnerable.

This is when I wasn’t just uncomfortable being naked physically but also where I was still very uncomfortable in being naked with my emotions, my confusions, my dreams, my desires, and yes my body.

Many years later….
After years of inner work…
After facing my body in the mirror…
After gazing straight to my soul…

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How do you make a moment last forever?

This is my question to myself as I stare out into the blue ocean while strong arms are wrapped around me.

The beginnings of tears begin to come to my eyes as a beautiful flood of emotions arise in my chest.

I want to freeze this moment amongst so many others over that last few days.

The kisses
The caresses
The heart shares
The laughter
The way I’ve been pampered so perfectly in a way that arouses my feminine in a way I’ve been hungry for recently.


I wanted to want to have sex! 

The other evening I was headed out to an event with a man I’ve been dating. I put on clothes that made me feel good and prior to leaving I made sure my home was in okay shape to have him back to connect after the event. 
Since he was heading over to my area of town to see the show I figured that would be easiest! 

I wanted to have sex with this man. I turned over the thoughts in my mind. And they were some naughty delicious thoughts.

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The Ugly Side Of Tantric Bodywork

I’m in the middle of receiving a personal tantric bodywork session… I laugh, I cry, I laugh and cry at the same time, and then, I suddenly go to a peaceful spiritual place where I see vivid white. Prior to leaving the session, I receive amazing grounding, but leave feeling like Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde, and I am surprised at my reaction. I am driving home and suddenly feel slightly drunk. I have not had one drop to drink, but I feel disoriented and am feeling sick to my stomach as I pull in my driveway. I was told to go home and eat grounding foods, but right now, I feel like vomiting all over my home, though eating and water are essential for me, right now, to get back to myself. I go to my bedroom and strip and put on the biggest t-shirt and leggings I can find and curl up on the couch for the rest of the evening (Yep, super sexy). I have very interesting dreams throughout the evening and wake up feeling like I was hit by a truck, both physically and emotionally. I start 5, 10, 50 emails to my mentor to process what is stirred up, but truly have no words to capture what feels like intense crazy. Instead, I ground, I breathe, and I do all the things my training has taught me in managing after an intense session. I have to paddle my way through these waves of emotions and know I will be better for it.

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