I hope one day you get all the love you desire.
That your walls and protections around your heart begin to shatter into a million little pieces
That you find yourself having to breathe into the new spaces that this love will bring you in your life.

And when that day comes, I hope you stand in it’s fire and all the feelings. I hope you choose to stay and that you don’t run away from the love you deserve. Read more

I apparently have commitment issues!

Recently I’ve been told by no less than three people close to me that I have commitment issues.

Which obviously led this Virgo to psychoanalyze self and the idea of “commitment issues”

And the answer is that YES to the average person I can see how this could be true.
And NO it’s not an issue… it’s me being authentic and in integrity.

So I share this for my peeps that might relate and might feel the same way. Those that have been told they have commitment issues. Or those that have felt like they’ve been forced to commit to ANYTHING in their life!

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The other day I was having a conversation with a male friend and we were talking about sex, dating, and orgasm.
I had shared that with the current world happenings and being single right now, that I was feeling orgasmically depleted.
 
Then this friend proceeded to stir my anger by stating…
 
“You could have sex anytime you wanted it! Your orgasmic depletion is your own fault”.

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He’s a bit of a fixer-upper!

Have you ever watched the children’s movie “Frozen”.

I have but I’ve never listened intently to some of the words of one song.

While camping the other day this song came on and I recognized it as a song from Frozen. I quickly became quite concerned about some of the words.

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Men.
 
You want an amazing woman…
 
A woman that is sexy and comfortable in her own skin.
 
Yeah, the kind of woman that doesn’t mind showing off the beautiful curves God gave her and is luscious in her movements!
 
A woman that gives you that “come and get me” look and can be playful in the bedroom and yet has no problem surrendering to her animalistic need for good deep sexing.

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Dating a woman in this day and age is not an easy task!
Generations of women raised in the 70’s, 80’s, 90’s, and 00’s were raised to be “independent women”!

Raised that we don’t need a man and should be able to do it all by ourselves. That loving self is enough and a relationship does not define us. Our careers are just as important and we should be at the top of our game in all areas.
Well, now we have many women the are just that… independent to the point that the dating game of old has changed and changed massively.

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