I hope one day you get all the love you desire.
That your walls and protections around your heart begin to shatter into a million little pieces
That you find yourself having to breathe into the new spaces that this love will bring you in your life.

And when that day comes, I hope you stand in it’s fire and all the feelings. I hope you choose to stay and that you don’t run away from the love you deserve. Read more

You can get angry or you can get living!

The current world seems to have tons of things we can be angry about right now…

From our political situation, world health, financial crisis, to what we are seeing come out about systems supporting child trafficking.

Not to add in the things that our personal lives bring to us anger and frustrations with those we are in relationship with, in our homes, and in our careers.

And sometimes we NEED to feel that anger and recognize that it is present and that we are stirred by a situation. We need to feel the contrast.

BUT…

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Don’t you ever get tired?
Tired of holding it all together.
Holding it together within yourself and then trying to hold everyone else’s shit together as well.
Trying, working, hustling, planning and overthinking.

Keeping your body and mind tense and always focused. Hustling for your worth out of pure irrational fear.

Fear that if you were to truly let go that you would lose all control over your life and that it would spiral out into mass chaos. That you wouldn’t survive and that you would lose all those around you. Read more

 

Today, I watch as fruit and vegetables were used as some of the best sex toys around!!!

Lol, I ran my yearly Oral Intimacies in-person Workshop (there is a recorded version available on my site)
And for the lab/demo portion of this class we make use of cucumbers and mangos.

Myself and my co-teacher ask each individual to tap into the sensations within their bodies as they both give and receive. Now there is zero touching in this workshop and yet we hear again and again how it was incredibly erotic. Read more

“How dare you love yourself! Stop it and stop it now”

How dare you take a picture of yourself and want to share your beautiful smile with the world.

How dare you be excited about your life and want to share the excitement that you are feeling.

How dare you be proud of your accomplishments and take pride in your work.

How dare you charge money for your years of expertise and training.

You really should dull your shine so that I feel better and that I don’t have to really take a look at how I am not living up to my own potential.

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Holding onto the Past or Soaring into the Future

Are You Holding onto the Past OR Soaring Into Your Future?

I see you there in your hurt, sadness and wounding.
I feel your desire to make a change and have that life that you want and deserve.
You are right on the brink!!!

Yes, you are right there standing in your passion and desire to open yourself up to this whole new world of pleasure.

But your old shiz is never going to allow that change.

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Not the Best Sex Ever…

Not the best sex ever…
But beautifully connective and powerful

My head is thrown back…
The pressure in my p-ssy is intensifying
As I edge closer to a beautiful peak in my orgasm
I feel his energy fully present in this moment with me…
Focusing on the smallest movements of my body

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It’s In The Vulnerability

It’s all in the vulnerability.
This is how we grow and expand.
This is the way in which we learn more about each other but it is also the thing so many of us avoid.

I drove all morning in order to go on a last minute adventure. Yesterday evening I had this random desire to go see a special man in my life.
In truth to follow where my p*ssy and therefore my spirit to where it was pulling me. Read more

Oversensitivity shuts down our growth in health, racism, and our lives.

Do you know when I get a woman in my office that has been traumatized it is not uncommon for her clit to be so sensitive that she can’t stand to be touched.

Her husband or partner will go in with the gentlest of touches, with love, care, and compassion. Deeply desiring to help…

And she is still in pain and at times she get angry and lashes out at her man. Or she sits and cries and completely shuts down.

I hope one day you truly hear it.

Hear the words of love that are poured over you and allow them into your heart.
That you choose to break open that sheet of armour that you’ve fit comfortably over your beautiful heart and allow the world to see it shine.

Letting go of all the darkness that blinds you from seeing yourself as you truly are and cut the cords of the moments that have left you wounded.