Live for the Life You Were Called Towards
The naysayers and voices around you might be loud.
Telling you that you can’t make it and that you are ruining your life with the choice to follow your heart.
Making the choice to put self first.
To put more quality into your life.
You claim to love someone
You share with them that they matter and swear to be able to love them through their pain and sadness and be rejoicing with them in times of triumph.
But can you really keep that promise?
Do you REALLY want all of them?
For most, the truest answer would be NO! Read more
I can do hard things!
This is a mantra that I had going through my head this morning as I entered my studio space to do morning yoga.
I am feeling tight and sore this morning, on top of being 6 days into a juice cleanse.
My ego wants to bail!
There is no one holding me to it this morning.
No yoga buddies.
No one that’s going to care if I keep at it. Read more
You say that you could never do open relationship.
That you find it wrong and not natural.
You think it could never work and that it isn’t aligned with real intimate relationships.
You point to moral objections within your religious doctrines Read more
To the Woman that Isn’t Orgasmic…
Darling, this is a story you’ve been telling way too long. Every woman is orgasmic. Every woman has that fire within that burns in her very core.
Right now it might feel dim and be hard to locate but I promise that it’s there. It’s right there smoldering like an ember about to take flame. Read more
You’re either healing her or traumatizing her with your sex.
There is no middle ground.
There are shades and degrees to which you can either traumatize her or heal her but in each encounter you are doing one or the other.
And most men are doing more trauma than healing! Read more
It’s already seeping in for some.
The struggle with mental health.
I’m already hearing stories of the darkness that is enveloping people’s minds in our current world situation.
When we are forced to stop our normal hustle and bustle then we must be with self. We must be with our entire selves and all the intricate pieces.
You don’t want to look at it.
You don’t want to feel it.
You hardly want to admit it’s there at all!
You instead want to convince yourself and those around you that you are “fine”. You are high-vibing and doing great. You are focused on the positives.
I’m only human.
I can’t read your mind and you can’t read mine.
We must verbalize and share our hearts to know one another at the next level.
To understand and have a better viewpoint of why we say or do the things in our lives… we must speak and not assume.
You and I can both make up stories in our heads about intentions and desires, but most of the time we are wrong.