You are choosing the relationships that are keeping you stuck.

Yes, most of us choose relationships that are comfortable but not comfortable in the sense that we feel seen, heard, and understood. No, we choose relationships that are comfortable in the way that we don’t have to push ourselves and grow.

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I wanted to want to have sex! 

The other evening I was headed out to an event with a man I’ve been dating. I put on clothes that made me feel good and prior to leaving I made sure my home was in okay shape to have him back to connect after the event. 
Since he was heading over to my area of town to see the show I figured that would be easiest! 

I wanted to have sex with this man. I turned over the thoughts in my mind. And they were some naughty delicious thoughts.

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