You’re letting your spark die for comfort

You can still remember the days when you felt truly and utterly ALIVE!!!

The times when you were turned on at every turn by life and the world felt new.

Those days when each and every day held a new adventure, a new thing to learn, a new fit of laughter.

When you lived on the constant edge of your comfort zone and all that that brings with it!

Now you are solid. Your are grounded. You are happy and grateful. Read more

The element of surprise is so magical.
Yet when it comes to your life you squash the magic!!!

Today I drove a friend and her family to the airport for an adventure. She had not told her kids where the adventure would be and what it would entail and so as we drove she dropped little playful hints.

There was curiosity, there was laughter, there was anticipation in the car, and excitement for what was to come in the next few days.

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You claim to love it…
You are constantly desiring it…
But have you ever thought what “it” is???
And if you are aligned to what you claim “it” to be..

SEX
The thing so many want, think about, and do… But don’t have a clear understanding of WHY and even if they have a why.. often they are not living in alignment with that why. Read more

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder!
 
Do you remember that feeling as a kid that you would get whenever doing something new?
 
That feeling of awe that would come over you on Christmas morning when you would look at all the presents under the tree. Or your first time at an Amusement park.
 
Or when you simply looked at the stars or saw fireworks for the first time.

Tantra is not about Sex!
Yet…
You can’t practice tantra without it!
 
Sex is never the true focus point of tantra as a practice.
Though as we connect with our energy and begin to weave our lives together, there is no way to avoid our sex and still be a full and complete person.

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Lawn seats and I am singing my little heart out! I am thrilled to hear my favorite song but you can see me dancing along to almost every tune they decide to play.
 
Though I glance around.
And my breath catches for a moment as I look around at the crowd. I am truly amazed at how many people look like they are being tortured or just plain bored.
 
I look at a married couple right in front of me that doesn’t snuggle or kiss during the love songs… not even once.
 

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Imagine walking into a brand new home.
 
You walk around and land in a brand new room….
You stand there looking at the walls, the floor, and all the empty space. Blank and ready to be filled.
 
Or imagine walking into a current room of your home. One that you are ready, and have the ability, to redecorate. You look around and see all that is there…
 
In both of these scenarios, you are most likely excited and thinking about all the magnificence things you can do to fill the room and make it feel good!!!

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I was so incredibly tired….
 
There have been times when…
I didn’t see any point of getting out of bed and living my life. Everything seemed…pointless. My light was so astoundingly dim that in truth I didn’t even recognize that there WAS any light within.
 
There have been times when…
My sex and relationships were simply non-existent. The bodily reaction of orgasm was not part of my vocabulary, which like in all women, made me bitchy…depleted…and very unfulfilled. But I was so oblivious that I thought I was doing GREAT!

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