I’m soaking in a warm hot tub with friends as the jets create an abundance of bubbles on the surface.
We sit looking up at the stars and enjoying the moments.
When a female friend that is sitting beside me takes notice of the glow of the lights on my pale white skin.

“Your skin and hair is so beautiful in the lights. May I play with it?”
I breathe in the compliment and give my consent.

She takes my braided hair and strokes it up against the sensitive skin of my arm. The sensation is divine in this relaxed space and I can feel the reaction of tingles all over my body and deep within my core. Read more

You have to work for your orgasm!
Or your orgasmic potential that is
You don’t understand true orgasm because you’ve bought the average and ordinary sheep mindset of what sex is…
And that is why you don’t believe you can orgasm or the reason you go for the quick fix of pleasure.
You believe that deep penetrative orgasms are something that comes without you having to put in the effort.
And so your beliefs about what could be in the bedroom and even outside of the bedroom are skewed by your closed mindset.

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The arousal was fiercely present within.
 
It all started with the soft caress of my skin and a moment where my breath dove deep into my sexual core.
And I could feel myself being beckoned deeper into this bliss that awaited me.
Deeper, deeper, deeper
 
“Relax my dear”
“Surrender, I’ve got you”
“Enjoy all that is around you and within you”
“Feel me”
 
Is what was being communicated without words as I felt my body begin to roll in the energetic waves.
My hips making a figure 8 of desire… reaching for penetration.
All while each breath felt like it was forcing me to crack open in pleasure.

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Not the Best Sex Ever…

Not the best sex ever…
But beautifully connective and powerful

My head is thrown back…
The pressure in my p-ssy is intensifying
As I edge closer to a beautiful peak in my orgasm
I feel his energy fully present in this moment with me…
Focusing on the smallest movements of my body

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Sex doesn’t equal quality time.

I had a client in the office the other day that was sharing about their desire for quality time with their woman. Sharing that because of recent life circumstances time alone has been more difficult to come by as kids are home and life is busy. Then he proceeded later to share about how him and his woman have been doing a ton together….

Long story short and I stopped him in his tracks and asked about the conflicting information. Spending tons of time together but also having the experience of not getting time with her. Read more

We are walking back to the car after some intimate conversation and an evening of laughter. I can feel the gentle breeze blowing my dress and I am soaking in the moment.

The air feels magical.
The full moon is lighting our way.
And he slowly slips his hand into mine. Read more

You’re isolated and so…
If you like many then you might be having more sexy time
Whether this sexy time is with a partner or solo
Stats are showing an increase in sexual activity and engagement during the pandemic.
Porn sites are booming. Private subscription sites are overrun with new performers.
And couples are reporting more time to have that sex that they have not been having previously. Read more

To the Woman that Isn’t Orgasmic…

Darling, this is a story you’ve been telling way too long. Every woman is orgasmic. Every woman has that fire within that burns in her very core.

Right now it might feel dim and be hard to locate but I promise that it’s there. It’s right there smoldering like an ember about to take flame. Read more

The other day I was having a conversation with a male friend and we were talking about sex, dating, and orgasm.
I had shared that with the current world happenings and being single right now, that I was feeling orgasmically depleted.
 
Then this friend proceeded to stir my anger by stating…
 
“You could have sex anytime you wanted it! Your orgasmic depletion is your own fault”.

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The physical aspect of the sexing is… pretty good.

Not the best as we work around momentary physical challenges in our bodies.

Working to get into a rhythm and position that both arouse and is comfortable.

I feel us both floating in and out of presence…
Into our fear, into our uncertainty, into our ego’s
But again and again we
Continue to call each other back from the inner world that is calling
Back into our bodies and back into connection.
A calling back each time we see the other drift.

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