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08Oct202008Oct2020

The Caged Bird Dies

Let’s say you are out walking on a beautiful morning and you see the most majestic bird. The colors are breathtaking. The way it flits, this way and that, brings you such joy.

This little bird hops over to you and begins to show interest. There is something within you that this majestic bird is drawn too and so she decides to play with you.

Being in the very presence of this bird makes you feel more connected to yourself and the Universe. You are inspired by the way she moves, plays, loves, trusts, and connects. Read more →

25Jul202018Aug2020

I Have Commitment Issues

Addison Bell Uncategorized abundance, Addison Bell, commitment, connection, dating, hands, issues, love, marriage, open relationships, polyamory, relationships, unconditional love, wounds

I apparently have commitment issues!

Recently I’ve been told by no less than three people close to me that I have commitment issues.

Which obviously led this Virgo to psychoanalyze self and the idea of “commitment issues”

And the answer is that YES to the average person I can see how this could be true.
And NO it’s not an issue… it’s me being authentic and in integrity.

So I share this for my peeps that might relate and might feel the same way. Those that have been told they have commitment issues. Or those that have felt like they’ve been forced to commit to ANYTHING in their life!

04May2020

Self-Centered Self Importance of Jealousy

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, Ego, jealousy, open relationship, polyamory, relationships

It is seeping off of you and leaving a stink in the air.
I watch as your eyes change to a dark green color and are shooting fire around the space.
And your oh so beautiful heart has a cloud of darkness that has fallen over it.

But it’s love.
But it’s caring.
But it’s not your fault. Read more →

21Apr2020

God wants Open Relationships

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, Addison Unleashed, desire, expansion, God, growth, open relationships, opening, polyamory

You say that you could never do open relationship.

That you find it wrong and not natural.
You think it could never work and that it isn’t aligned with real intimate relationships.
You point to moral objections within your religious doctrines Read more →

12Jun201623Apr2018

To The Man Who Tried To Tame Me

Addison Bell Uncategorized polyamory, relationships, sex 0 Comment

I get it! You wanted to find your soul mate. You wanted someone you could grow old with, someone that you could quickly pin down in your “happily ever after” fantasy. The problem is that my heart and soul are too wild and free to be caged by you.