Men. My beautiful and sweet men.

Most of you have so much going for you!
You really do.

A heart that desire for depth and deeper intimacy with a woman.

You sit in classes and workshops trying to learn all the right ways to please your woman and guide her to a state of ecstasy. You aren’t okay with wham bam thank you ma’am anymore. Read more

You’re letting your spark die for comfort

You can still remember the days when you felt truly and utterly ALIVE!!!

The times when you were turned on at every turn by life and the world felt new.

Those days when each and every day held a new adventure, a new thing to learn, a new fit of laughter.

When you lived on the constant edge of your comfort zone and all that that brings with it!

Now you are solid. Your are grounded. You are happy and grateful. Read more

The element of surprise is so magical.
Yet when it comes to your life you squash the magic!!!

Today I drove a friend and her family to the airport for an adventure. She had not told her kids where the adventure would be and what it would entail and so as we drove she dropped little playful hints.

There was curiosity, there was laughter, there was anticipation in the car, and excitement for what was to come in the next few days.

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Make friends with your shadows

You think you’re a “good person”
Aww, that’s Cute!!!

Cute how your ego has got you tied up and twisted in it’s lies to make you feel good about yourself.
To put you above others and make you feel superior.
To pat you on the head like a good little puppy Read more

What if J.K. Rowling gave up and listened to all the rejection letters. Never started writing those notes on a napkin about a character named Harry Potter?

The world would be missing out on a series that has given such joy and imagination to people old and young. It would have never inspired so many to pick up a book and go inside to see a world within their own mind!

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What stops you from OWNING and I mean really OWNING your truth? What is that area that you are running and trying to hide from your truths in order to not have to face them?

These things make you uncomfortable to be fully present in. They might be something that you are desiring deep in your heart but only choosing to dip your toe in the stream. Or it could be something you are claiming to really be full-on about but if you truly got real with yourself and others then they would know that you aren’t owning it FULLY.

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