The physical aspect of the sexing is… pretty good.

Not the best as we work around momentary physical challenges in our bodies.

Working to get into a rhythm and position that both arouse and is comfortable.

I feel us both floating in and out of presence…
Into our fear, into our uncertainty, into our ego’s
But again and again we
Continue to call each other back from the inner world that is calling
Back into our bodies and back into connection.
A calling back each time we see the other drift.

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You’re letting your spark die for comfort

You can still remember the days when you felt truly and utterly ALIVE!!!

The times when you were turned on at every turn by life and the world felt new.

Those days when each and every day held a new adventure, a new thing to learn, a new fit of laughter.

When you lived on the constant edge of your comfort zone and all that that brings with it!

Now you are solid. Your are grounded. You are happy and grateful. Read more

In 2020 I want a better body
In 2020 I want more money
In 2020 I want better health
In 2020 I want a romantic relationship

It’s that time of year again…
And this year it is even more intense since we are entering a decade. Making lists and resolutions of all the things we want to call into the New Year.

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You claim to love it…
You are constantly desiring it…
But have you ever thought what “it” is???
And if you are aligned to what you claim “it” to be..

SEX
The thing so many want, think about, and do… But don’t have a clear understanding of WHY and even if they have a why.. often they are not living in alignment with that why. Read more

 

I was 17yr and was prepping my dance solo for competition. This was the first time I had really undertaken a truly sensual song in my dancing and first time had to convey a deeper sensualness that I had not yet experienced.

At this point, sex was not a thing in my reality and I was incredibly disconnected from my body. I have a distinct memory of my teacher at the time screaming at me from across the room, “just friggin touch yourself already!!! Goodness gracious…it’s not that hard” Read more

Ladies!!! Ladies! Let’s Chat…
 
Recently I’ve had a slew of truly beautiful men come into my office and share similar statements and experiences.
 
Experiences where women are not willing to take any time on their male partners.
Not kissing them.
Not touching them.
Not stroking them.
 
Zero Foreplay!!!
Zero Pre-Work Connection!!!

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Not turned onto life… Just have more sex!

There is often in my coaching practice that people will come to me sharing about how they don’t seem to feel turned onto their lives.

Life has turned dull. Try as they might they simply can’t find that passion for life and it is showing in their career, in their relationships, in their daily life habits. Even the things that used to touch their hearts at a deeper level seem to struggle to even cause a flicker of a positive feeling. Read more