You are not one thing… you are everything!

“Addison, you are a Bada*s”
“Addison, you are so spiritually connected”
“Addison, you are so shy!”
“Addison, you are so playful”
“Addison, you are so rigid”

Yep, I am ALL of those things! And so much more

And guess what???
You, my dear, are the same!

You might not be those specific things but you are a beautiful conglomeration of a multitude of different aspects.

Back when I was a full-time therapist I spent years studying a technique call psychodrama. Psychodrama is all about putting the drama of our inner psyche out in front.
Seeing it…
Re-creating it…
Dealing with it…

I still am in love with the methodology but one piece of this technique is something called a “Parts party”

It’s about seeing and working with all the different elements of who were are…

BECAUSE

We are so much more than one thing!

In truth, even in our most authentic living and relating only certain elements will be drawn out based upon the scenario and energy.

This is the beauty of being human and why in relationships there is ALWAYS more to learn and know.
About self
And about other.

Just when you think you know someone and the relationship is getting boring… if you dive just a bit deeper…appraoch things in a slightly different way… get even a drop more of effort going…

You can uncover a beautiful new part!

Often we can find ourselves in ruts with those in our lives because we have stopped allowing ourselves to tap into different energies or parts of self in a relationship.

We get cozy and comfortable with the parts that come out and don’t push ourselves to find that deeper level of authenticity or new energies.

At the same time, we often stop seeing others in our own lives from a different perspective…

If we have seen someone as serious… we struggle to change perspective and see their play

If we see someone as strong and powerful… we miss the moments of softness and vulnerability

If we perceive someone as stuck or lacking in personal growth… we lose sight of all the expansive growth they are making that we are choosing to be blind to.

We get comfortable!!!

Yet, one area we do this in is our own relationship with self.

We lose sight that within us is a treasure trove of magical pieces. We can use these different aspects to move us forwards or to tear us down.

We must choose each day which “parts” we choose to live in alignment with…

Do you wake and choose to focus on the parts of self that come straight from soul or those that have been established from pure egoic experiences?

Do you awake and choose to live in alignment with the parts of self that lift you closer to your soul goals?

The difference?? One makes you feel GOOD. The other type just plain and simply DOESN”T!

We can not control if others choose to touch into our depth
But what we CAN CONTROL is…

If we tune into our own depth and from which parts we are choosing to live from in any given moment.

AND, AND, AND

If we are open and allowing the fluid nature of ourselves then we are opening a door for others to see us in a different light.

If you get stuck thinking of yourself in a narrowly focused way then this is how others will respond to you.

So my question is not “who do you want to be” because the fact is everything you want to be you already ARE…

My question and focus for you is to ask yourself…

“What aspects of myself do I want to shine brighter today? Where will I allow myself to be seen for all that I am?”

Because all parts of you are beautiful and needed
And have made you into the spectacular human you are…

But growth requires us to constantly reexamine where we are leading from.

So where are you leading from today?

Go live a fierce and fulling life today!!
Addison Bell

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You dilute sex to a mere 30 seconds of high-intensity

Until you change your beliefs about your sex, your sex won’t change!

And one of these B.S. beliefs is that sex is about the finish line
About a 30-second climax that is edgy and highly intense
About that peak that leaves us pulling away moments afterwards because it goes from….

High pleasure to TOO MUCH…STOP!
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I demand better than “normal” and the issue is that you don’t!
 
This week I have heard the word “normal” thrown out over and over again!
 
And the term has been used every time as a justification and a way to remove one’s guilt for not doing what needs to be done.
A settling.
An acceptance of the unacceptable.
 
Or actually it might be acceptable to you but it’s not acceptable for me or for my tribe.

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Men.
 
You want an amazing woman…
 
A woman that is sexy and comfortable in her own skin.
 
Yeah, the kind of woman that doesn’t mind showing off the beautiful curves God gave her and is luscious in her movements!
 
A woman that gives you that “come and get me” look and can be playful in the bedroom and yet has no problem surrendering to her animalistic need for good deep sexing.

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I have a very soft heart
I am called every single day to add some beauty to this world and go to sleep each night knowing I made a difference.
I enjoy when I can tell people how amazing they are and share a true sense of love
 
However, sometimes love isn’t all warm and fuzzy
 
Sometimes sending out love is actually saying the hard things that will trigger negative feelings
 
Sometimes the most loving thing is to break someone’s heart
 
I have been blessed over the last few years to meet some truly amazing men in my world.

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You are choosing the relationships that are keeping you stuck.

Yes, most of us choose relationships that are comfortable but not comfortable in the sense that we feel seen, heard, and understood. No, we choose relationships that are comfortable in the way that we don’t have to push ourselves and grow.

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