You’re Trying to Microwave That Shit!
Have you ever been cooking and sat there and thought if you should put something in the oven or choose the microwave?
relationships
You are choosing the relationships that are keeping you stuck.
Yes, most of us choose relationships that are comfortable but not comfortable in the sense that we feel seen, heard, and understood. No, we choose relationships that are comfortable in the way that we don’t have to push ourselves and grow.
It’s all about the sex!
You ask me why I’m not talking about sex. Where are all the directly sexual discussions. Where are all the hot and steamy discussions to expand your sex.
It’s all here baby!
Dating a woman in this day and age is not an easy task!
Generations of women raised in the 70’s, 80’s, 90’s, and 00’s were raised to be “independent women”!
Raised that we don’t need a man and should be able to do it all by ourselves. That loving self is enough and a relationship does not define us. Our careers are just as important and we should be at the top of our game in all areas.
Well, now we have many women the are just that… independent to the point that the dating game of old has changed and changed massively.
You know in your bones that this isn’t working for your spirit.
You continue to stay in the comfort of it though because its just that… comfortable!
You don’t have to deal with the “stress” of pushing forward, having the hard conversation, being alone, or truly looking within.
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It’s all fun and games until you actually have to deal with the other side.
You sit and desire certain characteristics of those in your life, and especially out of a romantic partner. Yet, I daresay that many times you are asking for a mess of contradictions.
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I am feeling blessed to have spent the last few days away building my business, connecting with new clients and working with my old clients, but most of all getting to have a girls weekend.
Kendal and I were picked up from the airport by her man , who asked us what our favorite part of the short getaway had been. We had managed to squeeze a lot of things into a short time!
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Why keep going. Why keep opening the heart. Why do us humans continue to step forward despite the hurts and hang-ups?
Because we know there is more. We know there is a deeper love and a deeper place within that awaits us if we only trust. Not a blind trust where we say it without knowing. No, we know. The kind of faith and trust that simply comes from an inner knowing. A knowing that is fed to us from the divine.
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I want to know you. I want to TRULY know you. I want to see all the little intricacies within and how your bundle of memories, inspirations, and dreams have been woven together. I don’t want to just hear the stories… I want to feel the stories and see them in my mind. What makes you tick, where did you get that wound, that fear, that radiant light, that funny little thing you do?
You keep on telling the same old worn out story of your life.
You keep sharing the same experiences that you claim “not to want” but yet you are getting “oh, so comfy cozy” using them to back up your beliefs.
Keeping yourself stuck in those same beliefs and same life.
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