You’re isolated and so…
If you like many then you might be having more sexy time
Whether this sexy time is with a partner or solo
Stats are showing an increase in sexual activity and engagement during the pandemic.
Porn sites are booming. Private subscription sites are overrun with new performers.
And couples are reporting more time to have that sex that they have not been having previously. Read more

You want them to make you feel special but you don’t see anything special within self.

You want them to rain love down upon you and yet you can’t find any love for all your intricacies

You want them to see you, romance you, cherish you, appreciate you… invite you in…

But you aren’t offering that same invitation to self to expand and drop into surrender. You are expecting others to give you things that you have not found the ability to consistently tune into within self. Read more

To the Woman that Isn’t Orgasmic…

Darling, this is a story you’ve been telling way too long. Every woman is orgasmic. Every woman has that fire within that burns in her very core.

Right now it might feel dim and be hard to locate but I promise that it’s there. It’s right there smoldering like an ember about to take flame. Read more

The physical aspect of the sexing is… pretty good.

Not the best as we work around momentary physical challenges in our bodies.

Working to get into a rhythm and position that both arouse and is comfortable.

I feel us both floating in and out of presence…
Into our fear, into our uncertainty, into our ego’s
But again and again we
Continue to call each other back from the inner world that is calling
Back into our bodies and back into connection.
A calling back each time we see the other drift.

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You’re letting your spark die for comfort

You can still remember the days when you felt truly and utterly ALIVE!!!

The times when you were turned on at every turn by life and the world felt new.

Those days when each and every day held a new adventure, a new thing to learn, a new fit of laughter.

When you lived on the constant edge of your comfort zone and all that that brings with it!

Now you are solid. Your are grounded. You are happy and grateful. Read more

The energy is hawt!!!

The orgasmic wave is both sexual and energetic. My hands are shaking, my body quivering, and my genitals are aching for more.

It is a glorious place to be. The receiving mode and dropping into TRUE orgasm.

Two different but yet beautifully conscious men.

Focusing in on me at different times.

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