I’m soaking in a warm hot tub with friends as the jets create an abundance of bubbles on the surface.
We sit looking up at the stars and enjoying the moments.
When a female friend that is sitting beside me takes notice of the glow of the lights on my pale white skin.

“Your skin and hair is so beautiful in the lights. May I play with it?”
I breathe in the compliment and give my consent.

She takes my braided hair and strokes it up against the sensitive skin of my arm. The sensation is divine in this relaxed space and I can feel the reaction of tingles all over my body and deep within my core. Read more

You have to work for your orgasm!
Or your orgasmic potential that is
You don’t understand true orgasm because you’ve bought the average and ordinary sheep mindset of what sex is…
And that is why you don’t believe you can orgasm or the reason you go for the quick fix of pleasure.
You believe that deep penetrative orgasms are something that comes without you having to put in the effort.
And so your beliefs about what could be in the bedroom and even outside of the bedroom are skewed by your closed mindset.

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The arousal was fiercely present within.
 
It all started with the soft caress of my skin and a moment where my breath dove deep into my sexual core.
And I could feel myself being beckoned deeper into this bliss that awaited me.
Deeper, deeper, deeper
 
“Relax my dear”
“Surrender, I’ve got you”
“Enjoy all that is around you and within you”
“Feel me”
 
Is what was being communicated without words as I felt my body begin to roll in the energetic waves.
My hips making a figure 8 of desire… reaching for penetration.
All while each breath felt like it was forcing me to crack open in pleasure.

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You Are A Liar… and you don’t even realize it.
Lies, lies, sweet little lies.
You don’t even see how they flow out of your mouth
How you have gotten to a place of believing these lies.
And now you are simply living your life based upon a lie.
A lie you have told yourself.
So what exactly are we talking about here?

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You were born with desire
You were born with a hunger
You were born with an Appetite!
 
An appetite for deeper connection and understanding of this world in all it’s juiciness.
 
The juiciness of deep connective relationships
The juiciness of feeling passion for your work
The juiciness of seeing and experiencing the world
The juiciness of our inner world and it’s divine energy
The juiciness of expansive moments of intimacy
 

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“I won’t open my legs up for a man that, at this moment, I wouldn’t open my arms for. ”

I took a deep breath.
I felt this woman’s statement to me but more than that I felt the energy of sorrow behind it.
I felt the energy of all the women past and present in my life.

These words that stir and bring to me the image of the ferocious feminine as well as the internal hunger of a woman not feeling fed.

I breathed in a sense of deep understanding in that moment. Read more

I hope one day you get all the love you desire.
That your walls and protections around your heart begin to shatter into a million little pieces
That you find yourself having to breathe into the new spaces that this love will bring you in your life.

And when that day comes, I hope you stand in it’s fire and all the feelings. I hope you choose to stay and that you don’t run away from the love you deserve. Read more

Why child sex trafficking?

This morning I was asked what makes me so passionate about this issue.

I mean more than the average sane person, that finds this disturbing.

In truth even the thought of child sex trafficking makes me want to cry!

I work with women and men every single day and hear horror stories about child sexual abuse and the damage that gas been done to their lives. Read more

You can get angry or you can get living!

The current world seems to have tons of things we can be angry about right now…

From our political situation, world health, financial crisis, to what we are seeing come out about systems supporting child trafficking.

Not to add in the things that our personal lives bring to us anger and frustrations with those we are in relationship with, in our homes, and in our careers.

And sometimes we NEED to feel that anger and recognize that it is present and that we are stirred by a situation. We need to feel the contrast.

BUT…

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