Stop telling me not to care!
Stop trying to shut down my beautiful heart and growth.

I do care.
Stop saying that you should not give a f*ck about others thoughts and opinions. Stop saying that you shouldn’t care about another persons emotions.

I can’t stand up for not caring about fellow souls that I walk this earth with.
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I live to be naked!

I remember a time when I was so uncomfortable being naked. Even with myself.

It felt wrong. It felt shameful. It felt triggering. It felt way too open and vulnerable.

This is when I wasn’t just uncomfortable being naked physically but also where I was still very uncomfortable in being naked with my emotions, my confusions, my dreams, my desires, and yes my body.

Many years later….
After years of inner work…
After facing my body in the mirror…
After gazing straight to my soul…

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Sex doesn’t equal quality time.

I had a client in the office the other day that was sharing about their desire for quality time with their woman. Sharing that because of recent life circumstances time alone has been more difficult to come by as kids are home and life is busy. Then he proceeded later to share about how him and his woman have been doing a ton together….

Long story short and I stopped him in his tracks and asked about the conflicting information. Spending tons of time together but also having the experience of not getting time with her. Read more

You’re isolated and so…
If you like many then you might be having more sexy time
Whether this sexy time is with a partner or solo
Stats are showing an increase in sexual activity and engagement during the pandemic.
Porn sites are booming. Private subscription sites are overrun with new performers.
And couples are reporting more time to have that sex that they have not been having previously. Read more

You want them to make you feel special but you don’t see anything special within self.

You want them to rain love down upon you and yet you can’t find any love for all your intricacies

You want them to see you, romance you, cherish you, appreciate you… invite you in…

But you aren’t offering that same invitation to self to expand and drop into surrender. You are expecting others to give you things that you have not found the ability to consistently tune into within self. Read more

To the Woman that Isn’t Orgasmic…

Darling, this is a story you’ve been telling way too long. Every woman is orgasmic. Every woman has that fire within that burns in her very core.

Right now it might feel dim and be hard to locate but I promise that it’s there. It’s right there smoldering like an ember about to take flame. Read more