“I have this, ‘thing’ sexually”, he tells me over a nice dinner.
So, I inquired….
“Well what is your ‘thing’ then?”
Then he glances at the table for a millisecond and then straight into my eyes, “I get really turned on by kicking my subs with steel-toed boots while they are on the ground. I try to be careful not to break any ribs”. Read more

 

Today, I watch as fruit and vegetables were used as some of the best sex toys around!!!

Lol, I ran my yearly Oral Intimacies in-person Workshop (there is a recorded version available on my site)
And for the lab/demo portion of this class we make use of cucumbers and mangos.

Myself and my co-teacher ask each individual to tap into the sensations within their bodies as they both give and receive. Now there is zero touching in this workshop and yet we hear again and again how it was incredibly erotic. Read more

Stop telling me not to care!
Stop trying to shut down my beautiful heart and growth.

I do care.
Stop saying that you should not give a f*ck about others thoughts and opinions. Stop saying that you shouldn’t care about another persons emotions.

I can’t stand up for not caring about fellow souls that I walk this earth with. Read more

I live to be naked!

I remember a time when I was so uncomfortable being naked. Even with myself.

It felt wrong. It felt shameful. It felt triggering. It felt way too open and vulnerable.

This is when I wasn’t just uncomfortable being naked physically but also where I was still very uncomfortable in being naked with my emotions, my confusions, my dreams, my desires, and yes my body.

Many years later….
After years of inner work…
After facing my body in the mirror…
After gazing straight to my soul…

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“How dare you love yourself! Stop it and stop it now”

How dare you take a picture of yourself and want to share your beautiful smile with the world.

How dare you be excited about your life and want to share the excitement that you are feeling.

How dare you be proud of your accomplishments and take pride in your work.

How dare you charge money for your years of expertise and training.

You really should dull your shine so that I feel better and that I don’t have to really take a look at how I am not living up to my own potential.

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π•π•†π•Œ 𝕒𝕣𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•„π”Έπ•Šπ•‹π”Όβ„ 𝕠𝕗 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦𝕣 β„‚*ℂ𝕂!

My Marvelous Men!

You have all you need to be the man you desire

You have the potential to be an outstanding lover that leaves your women begging for more

You have the ability to magnetize by just walking into a room in your purpose and power

You have these gifts, beauty, and ability but you are simply not tapping into the energy that creates these things in your life. Read more

Not the Best Sex Ever…

Not the best sex ever…
But beautifully connective and powerful

My head is thrown back…
The pressure in my p-ssy is intensifying
As I edge closer to a beautiful peak in my orgasm
I feel his energy fully present in this moment with me…
Focusing on the smallest movements of my body

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It’s In The Vulnerability

It’s all in the vulnerability.
This is how we grow and expand.
This is the way in which we learn more about each other but it is also the thing so many of us avoid.

I drove all morning in order to go on a last minute adventure. Yesterday evening I had this random desire to go see a special man in my life.
In truth to follow where my p*ssy and therefore my spirit to where it was pulling me. Read more

Oversensitivity shuts down our growth in health, racism, and our lives.

Do you know when I get a woman in my office that has been traumatized it is not uncommon for her clit to be so sensitive that she can’t stand to be touched.

Her husband or partner will go in with the gentlest of touches, with love, care, and compassion. Deeply desiring to help…

And she is still in pain and at times she get angry and lashes out at her man. Or she sits and cries and completely shuts down.