sexing

More Sex isn’t Always Better

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You’re isolated and so…
If you like many then you might be having more sexy time
Whether this sexy time is with a partner or solo
Stats are showing an increase in sexual activity and engagement during the pandemic.
Porn sites are booming. Private subscription sites are overrun with new performers.
And couples are reporting more time to have that sex that they have not been having previously. Read more →

Climactic Sex Isn’t Orgasmic Sex

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The physical aspect of the sexing is… pretty good.

Not the best as we work around momentary physical challenges in our bodies.

Working to get into a rhythm and position that both arouse and is comfortable.

I feel us both floating in and out of presence…
Into our fear, into our uncertainty, into our ego’s
But again and again we
Continue to call each other back from the inner world that is calling
Back into our bodies and back into connection.
A calling back each time we see the other drift.

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Just Have More Sex

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Not turned onto life… Just have more sex!

There is often in my coaching practice that people will come to me sharing about how they don’t seem to feel turned onto their lives.

Life has turned dull. Try as they might they simply can’t find that passion for life and it is showing in their career, in their relationships, in their daily life habits. Even the things that used to touch their hearts at a deeper level seem to struggle to even cause a flicker of a positive feeling. Read more →

When Energy is Volcanic

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The energy that was building in my genitals was volcanic.
 
It felt like if I kept going that I was going to melt with the intensity. And yet at the same time, it was all I wanted.
I wanted to melt. To let go. To meld entirely with this sensation.
 
I knew I needed it on a physical and energetic level.
This energy had been trapped for so long and was waiting for the tiniest of cracks.

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You Are Diluting Your Sex!

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You dilute sex to a mere 30 seconds of high-intensity

Until you change your beliefs about your sex, your sex won’t change!

And one of these B.S. beliefs is that sex is about the finish line
About a 30-second climax that is edgy and highly intense
About that peak that leaves us pulling away moments afterwards because it goes from….

High pleasure to TOO MUCH…STOP!
Within seconds. Read more →