tantra Archives - Addison Bell Coaching

02Sep2020

What You Won’t do for Gourmet Sex

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, connection, effort, gourmet, gourmet sexing, Inner Work, presence, relationships, sex, sexuality, tantra

I would do ANYTHING to please my partner!!! Truly anything!!….

“Oh wait, No… I won’t do THAT.” That thing.
My personal work.
The things that require effort and growth.
The things that make me uncomfortable not because it’s wild and crazy but because it makes me look/feel myself.
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26Aug2020

Painful Spiritual Experiences

Addison Bell Uncategorized abuse, Addison Bell, Addison Unleashed, coaching, expansion, growth, rape, sex coaching, spirit, spiritual, spirituality, tantra, tantric, trauma

We talk of spiritual moments as if they are always warm and cozy moments, where we feel doused in loving energy, and our world is glorious… with butterflies dancing out of our backsides! 😂

And sometimes this is exactly what a deeply spiritual moment or message feels like to us.

It can be those moments where we are so in need of light and love that it comes to us at just the right moment! Read more →

25Aug2020

Your Enoughness is Your Responsibility

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, alignment, belief, enough, enoughness, expansion, growth, guidance, ignited, love, soul alignment, spirit, tantra, worthiness, worthy

What if you just knew and decided that you were enough.

If you looked yourself in the eyes and simply claimed that, without you doing anything or trying to become anyone else, that you were enough.

That just by being here on this earth at this time and place that you have a purpose and a mission.
What is you stopped believing that you have to hustle to be good enough for that mission.

You are all that you already need to be.

24Aug2020

Memories become Our Lives

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, connection, gratitude, intimacy, love, loving life, magic, moment, nostalgia, passion, play, presence, regret, relationships, sex coaching, tantra

Sitting between my current lovers legs as we snuggle back on a beach chair and listen to the ocean.

My new kitten walking over with her toy mouse and asking me to play while she dances around in the cutest way.

My best friend sharing a funny story or intimacy share with me as we stand chatting before clients.

A moment of deep connective sexing where I felt so loved and held that it still brings tears to my eyes

The moments that become memories.

The memories that become our lives.

18Aug202018Aug2020

I hope one day you get all the love you desire.
That your walls and protections around your heart begin to shatter into a million little pieces
That you find yourself having to breathe into the new spaces that this love will bring you in your life.

And when that day comes, I hope you stand in it’s fire and all the feelings. I hope you choose to stay and that you don’t run away from the love you deserve. Read more →

11Aug202018Aug2020

Let Down Your Walls

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, desire, Ego, let go, letting down walls, love, openness, relax, sex, sexuality, shadow work, surrender, tantra, unconditional love

Don’t you ever get tired?
Tired of holding it all together.
Holding it together within yourself and then trying to hold everyone else’s shit together as well.
Trying, working, hustling, planning and overthinking.

Keeping your body and mind tense and always focused. Hustling for your worth out of pure irrational fear.

Fear that if you were to truly let go that you would lose all control over your life and that it would spiral out into mass chaos. That you wouldn’t survive and that you would lose all those around you. Read more →

10Aug202018Aug2020

I Have this “Thing”

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, boundaries, broken, desires, fantasy, fuck no, hard no, kink, kinky, ribs, sex, sex coaching, sexuality, tantra, thing

“I have this, ‘thing’ sexually”, he tells me over a nice dinner.
So, I inquired….
“Well what is your ‘thing’ then?”
Then he glances at the table for a millisecond and then straight into my eyes, “I get really turned on by kicking my subs with steel-toed boots while they are on the ground. I try to be careful not to break any ribs”. Read more →

26Jul202018Aug2020

Conscious Sexual Tools

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, coaching, cock, cock connection, conscious, consciousness, desire, masturbation, men, relationships, sex, sex coach, sex coaching, sexuality, tantra, women

Today, I watch as fruit and vegetables were used as some of the best sex toys around!!!

Lol, I ran my yearly Oral Intimacies in-person Workshop (there is a recorded version available on my site)
And for the lab/demo portion of this class we make use of cucumbers and mangos.

Myself and my co-teacher ask each individual to tap into the sensations within their bodies as they both give and receive. Now there is zero touching in this workshop and yet we hear again and again how it was incredibly erotic. Read more →

25Jul202018Aug2020

Smacking The Outstretched Hand of Love

Addison Bell Uncategorized abundance, Addison Bell, care, coaching, commitment, communication, concern, connection, help, love, relationships, tantra, unconditional love

“I just want someone to sincerely love and adore me…
I just want someone that sees me and helps without question…
I just want someone that loves me even in my bad…
I just want someone that wants to see me truly shine…
I just want someone that surprises me and thinks about me…”

You look to the sky and pray to receive love Read more →

14Jul202018Aug2020

Care About Others

Addison Bell Uncategorized caring, connection, love, negative energy, personal therapy, relationships, sex, sexuality, tantra, therapy

Stop telling me not to care!
Stop trying to shut down my beautiful heart and growth.

I do care.
Stop saying that you should not give a f*ck about others thoughts and opinions. Stop saying that you shouldn’t care about another persons emotions.

I can’t stand up for not caring about fellow souls that I walk this earth with. Read more →