Expansion Coach, Expert Author, Tantric Practitioner
Your relationships, all of your relationships, need moderate effort most of the time.
Not 10% and not 100% effort.
I was standing in yoga when the instructor reminded us to engage in a pose with moderate effort.
If we threw 100% then we would not be able to sustain
If we threw out 10% then we would not be stretching and expanding.
And I thought how this relates to our relationships.
You claim to love it…
You are constantly desiring it…
But have you ever thought what “it” is???
And if you are aligned to what you claim “it” to be..
SEX
The thing so many want, think about, and do… But don’t have a clear understanding of WHY and even if they have a why.. often they are not living in alignment with that why. Read more
He’s a bit of a fixer-upper!
Have you ever watched the children’s movie “Frozen”.
I have but I’ve never listened intently to some of the words of one song.
While camping the other day this song came on and I recognized it as a song from Frozen. I quickly became quite concerned about some of the words.
Having MORE won’t help
Having BETTER technique won’t help
Having DEEPER meditation/energetic healing won’t help.
“She only drinks coffee at midnight, when the moment is not
Right, her timing is quite unusual
You see her confidence is tragic, but her intuition magic
And the shape of her body unusual” -Train, “Meet Virginia”
I have always had a fascination for this song. Since I was a young girl riding the bus and hearing these lyrics for the first I felt like I “got” Virginia
So as I am driving down the road and song comes on I find myself belting it out with passion. Read more
I had a lover tell me once years ago when I was having a low period in my sex…
That all I needed was to let him blindfold me…. tie me up… open the door to a hotel room… and let as many random guys as he deemed fit come in and use my body.
THIS was supposedly what was going to fix me!
THIS was his answer to fixing the fact that I wasn’t feeling connected to my body.
THIS was how I was meant to move through energetic blockages. Read more
You dilute sex to a mere 30 seconds of high-intensity
Until you change your beliefs about your sex, your sex won’t change!
And one of these B.S. beliefs is that sex is about the finish line
About a 30-second climax that is edgy and highly intense
About that peak that leaves us pulling away moments afterwards because it goes from….
High pleasure to TOO MUCH…STOP!
Within seconds. Read more
