You dilute sex to a mere 30 seconds of high-intensity

Until you change your beliefs about your sex, your sex won’t change!

And one of these B.S. beliefs is that sex is about the finish line
About a 30-second climax that is edgy and highly intense
About that peak that leaves us pulling away moments afterwards because it goes from….

High pleasure to TOO MUCH…STOP!
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I demand better than “normal” and the issue is that you don’t!
 
This week I have heard the word “normal” thrown out over and over again!
 
And the term has been used every time as a justification and a way to remove one’s guilt for not doing what needs to be done.
A settling.
An acceptance of the unacceptable.
 
Or actually it might be acceptable to you but it’s not acceptable for me or for my tribe.

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Men.
 
You want an amazing woman…
 
A woman that is sexy and comfortable in her own skin.
 
Yeah, the kind of woman that doesn’t mind showing off the beautiful curves God gave her and is luscious in her movements!
 
A woman that gives you that “come and get me” look and can be playful in the bedroom and yet has no problem surrendering to her animalistic need for good deep sexing.

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I have a very soft heart
I am called every single day to add some beauty to this world and go to sleep each night knowing I made a difference.
I enjoy when I can tell people how amazing they are and share a true sense of love
 
However, sometimes love isn’t all warm and fuzzy
 
Sometimes sending out love is actually saying the hard things that will trigger negative feelings
 
Sometimes the most loving thing is to break someone’s heart
 
I have been blessed over the last few years to meet some truly amazing men in my world.

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Dating a woman in this day and age is not an easy task!
Generations of women raised in the 70’s, 80’s, 90’s, and 00’s were raised to be “independent women”!

Raised that we don’t need a man and should be able to do it all by ourselves. That loving self is enough and a relationship does not define us. Our careers are just as important and we should be at the top of our game in all areas.
Well, now we have many women the are just that… independent to the point that the dating game of old has changed and changed massively.

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I love words! I always have!
I was the bookworm-ish 10yr old reading Wuthering Heights and getting lost in the words of love being spoken. I am also the person that adores to be told by a loved one that I matter, am cherished, and loved. Although I am a bit of a mix of love languages…words at times can speak volumes and crack my heart right open. 

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