Expansion Coach, Expert Author, Tantric Practitioner
“I won’t open my legs up for a man that, at this moment, I wouldn’t open my arms for. ”
I took a deep breath.
I felt this woman’s statement to me but more than that I felt the energy of sorrow behind it.
I felt the energy of all the women past and present in my life.
These words that stir and bring to me the image of the ferocious feminine as well as the internal hunger of a woman not feeling fed.
I breathed in a sense of deep understanding in that moment. Read more
Sexual Trauma.
It sticks with you… for life.
You can work through it and still you can come back around and need to heal it at a new level.
Trauma changes the brain for good.
Changing the very fabric of who we are through experience but also through how our nervous system interacts with the world.
Recently a past trauma has reemerged in my body.
Spirit and my body are ready to work through it and heal at a next level and so it is making itself known once again to my awareness.
Let’s say you are out walking on a beautiful morning and you see the most majestic bird. The colors are breathtaking. The way it flits, this way and that, brings you such joy.
This little bird hops over to you and begins to show interest. There is something within you that this majestic bird is drawn too and so she decides to play with you.
Being in the very presence of this bird makes you feel more connected to yourself and the Universe. You are inspired by the way she moves, plays, loves, trusts, and connects. Read more
Why child sex trafficking?
This morning I was asked what makes me so passionate about this issue.
I mean more than the average sane person, that finds this disturbing.
In truth even the thought of child sex trafficking makes me want to cry!
I work with women and men every single day and hear horror stories about child sexual abuse and the damage that gas been done to their lives. Read more
I love C*Ck!
I love the soft skin that feels like silk
I love the edges and ridges
I love the way it has a mind of it’s own
I love the responsiveness
I love the taste!
I think they are beautiful and I feel it is my duty to stand here loud and proud and say… I LOVE C*CK! Read more
Today, I watch as fruit and vegetables were used as some of the best sex toys around!!!
Lol, I ran my yearly Oral Intimacies in-person Workshop (there is a recorded version available on my site)
And for the lab/demo portion of this class we make use of cucumbers and mangos.
Myself and my co-teacher ask each individual to tap into the sensations within their bodies as they both give and receive. Now there is zero touching in this workshop and yet we hear again and again how it was incredibly erotic. Read more
I live to be naked!
I remember a time when I was so uncomfortable being naked. Even with myself.
It felt wrong. It felt shameful. It felt triggering. It felt way too open and vulnerable.
This is when I wasn’t just uncomfortable being naked physically but also where I was still very uncomfortable in being naked with my emotions, my confusions, my dreams, my desires, and yes my body.
Many years later….
After years of inner work…
After facing my body in the mirror…
After gazing straight to my soul…
Time.
It’s the most precious thing we have
The way in which we choose to use it is important because once it’s gone… it’s gone forever.
Yet many use it carelessly.
Not thinking about how they are giving their lives away to things that not bringing them joy, love, and connection. Things that don’t se their hearts on fire.
And simply not using it to find ways to set their hearts on fire. Read more
You can’t get a woman out of her masculine if you are making her do everything. The feminine requires a lead.
One of the most common things I hear from men is that they desire their woman to be in the feminine. They see thir partners bitchy, hormonal, and not dropping down in the bedroom and look to her asking…
“Why can’t you get into the feminine?”, “Why aren’t you glowy and free flowing like that woman over there?”
Well, there are several reasons for this…
One might just be YOU!!
To the Woman that Isn’t Orgasmic…
Darling, this is a story you’ve been telling way too long. Every woman is orgasmic. Every woman has that fire within that burns in her very core.
Right now it might feel dim and be hard to locate but I promise that it’s there. It’s right there smoldering like an ember about to take flame. Read more