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09Jul202015Jul2020

I live to Be Naked!

Addison Bell Uncategorized body awareness, body coaching, body therapy, body-image, live, love, naked, natural, relationships, self love, sex, sexuality, tantra, women

I live to be naked!

I remember a time when I was so uncomfortable being naked. Even with myself.

It felt wrong. It felt shameful. It felt triggering. It felt way too open and vulnerable.

This is when I wasn’t just uncomfortable being naked physically but also where I was still very uncomfortable in being naked with my emotions, my confusions, my dreams, my desires, and yes my body.

Many years later….
After years of inner work…
After facing my body in the mirror…
After gazing straight to my soul…

04May2020

You Are Giving Your Life Away

Addison Bell Uncategorized desires, honoring, love, love language, loving, men, relationships, tantra, time, women

Time.
It’s the most precious thing we have
The way in which we choose to use it is important because once it’s gone… it’s gone forever.

Yet many use it carelessly.
Not thinking about how they are giving their lives away to things that not bringing them joy, love, and connection. Things that don’t se their hearts on fire.
And simply not using it to find ways to set their hearts on fire. Read more →

04May2020

Want Her Heart?

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, feminine, feminine energy, leading, masculine, masculine energy, men, polarities, tantra, women

You can’t get a woman out of her masculine if you are making her do everything. The feminine requires a lead.

One of the most common things I hear from men is that they desire their woman to be in the feminine. They see thir partners bitchy, hormonal, and not dropping down in the bedroom and look to her asking…

“Why can’t you get into the feminine?”, “Why aren’t you glowy and free flowing like that woman over there?”

Well, there are several reasons for this…

One might just be YOU!!

06Apr2020

To the Un-Orgasmic Woman

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, Addison Unleashed, bedroom, expansion, growth, life orgasmic, orgasm, orgasmic, relationships, sex, woman, women

To the Woman that Isn’t Orgasmic…

Darling, this is a story you’ve been telling way too long. Every woman is orgasmic. Every woman has that fire within that burns in her very core.

Right now it might feel dim and be hard to locate but I promise that it’s there. It’s right there smoldering like an ember about to take flame. Read more →

04Apr2020

Single Woman Sex Stigma

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, anxiety, dating, depression, health, men, orgasm, relationships, stigma, tantra, underfucked, women

The other day I was having a conversation with a male friend and we were talking about sex, dating, and orgasm.

I had shared that with the current world happenings and being single right now, that I was feeling orgasmically depleted.

Then this friend proceeded to stir my anger by stating…

“You could have sex anytime you wanted it! Your orgasmic depletion is your own fault”.

01Apr202004Apr2020

Sexual Trauma or Healing

Addison Bell Uncategorized expansion, growth, healing, masculine, men, sex, sexual healing, tantra, trauma, women

You’re either healing her or traumatizing her with your sex.

There is no middle ground.
There are shades and degrees to which you can either traumatize her or heal her but in each encounter you are doing one or the other.

And most men are doing more trauma than healing! Read more →

01Apr202004Apr2020

Knight & Shining Armor

Addison Bell Uncategorized allowing, feminine, knight, masculine, restriction, surrender, women

Ladies, stop being too good for the knight and shining armor!

I remember being a little girl and watching/reading fairy tales where the prince would ride in and save the day. The damsel-like princess would hold onto him and they would ride away into the sunset of their happily ever after!

It was beautiful but even as a young girl I knew this was not the case in the real world. I enjoyed pretending but knew these were just stories. Women don’t need to be saved and aren’t helpless. I was, as many of you were, raised to believe in female independence and equality.

But if I’m honest a piece of these stories now and even then was appealing. The masculine riding in and allowing the feminine to surrender. There was a thread in these stories that felt “right”.

02Mar2020

Social Media Mirrors Our Relationships

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, connection, expansion coaching, facebook, men, relationships, social media, tantra, women

As a Sex & relationship Coach, it is always interesting interacting with others on my social media accounts because of the ways it shines a light on many of the very reasons we struggle in today’s society with relationships.

You would think that this would only be true of those that grew up since the stir of social media but this is not the case! The dysfunctional relational dynamics across generations becomes very apparent on platforms such as Facebook.

20Jan202020Jan2020

The Ideal is the Moderate Effort Relationship

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, Addison Unleashed, connection, love, love languages, men, moderate effort, relationships, women

Your relationships, all of your relationships, need moderate effort most of the time.
Not 10% and not 100% effort.

I was standing in yoga when the instructor reminded us to engage in a pose with moderate effort.

If we threw 100% then we would not be able to sustain
If we threw out 10% then we would not be stretching and expanding.
And I thought how this relates to our relationships.

04Nov201921Nov2019

You Claim to Love it!

Addison Bell Uncategorized alignment, desire, embodiment, energy, feminine, joy, masculine, men, nuance, pleasure, relationships, sex, sexual intercourse, sexuality, women

You claim to love it…
You are constantly desiring it…
But have you ever thought what “it” is???
And if you are aligned to what you claim “it” to be..

SEX
The thing so many want, think about, and do… But don’t have a clear understanding of WHY and even if they have a why.. often they are not living in alignment with that why. Read more →