Affairs are nasty.
Both parties hurt, feel shame, fear and anger.
Fingers are pointed. Names are called and the relationship feel’s lost.
But, what if it did not have to be this way?
What if you could move forward together and access deeper levels of intimacy and learn better communication and strategies to heal and prevent affairs from wrecking havoc in your love life?
Would you be willing to explore the possibilities?
During Affair Recovery VIP Day you will get to dive deep into an intensive experience of healing and recovery.
Our Goals will be:
GOAL 1: Individual Healing –
Understanding Personal Healing and Sorting through Emotional Problems
The first section is all about you.
” When people are affected by infidelity, their first instincts are to look for reasons that the affairs happened. They want to know the details of the affairs. They want to know why their loved ones did what they did. They want to know if they will ever be able to trust their partners again.
This is what I call “externalizing.” Externalizing means that people are looking outside of themselves for answers to emotional issues that are happening within them. When you first start working on your relationship after an affair, the first thing you need to do is look within yourself.” – ( Dr. Savannah Ellis Infidelity Recovery Coach, Author, & Educator)
GOAL 2: Healing As a Couple –
Working Together to Identify and Resolve Key Issues
After you do some work on your own reactions to this difficult experience, you will start to look more closely at the way you and your partner function as a couple.
This is a critical component in your healing process. After infidelity, communication becomes incredibly strained. But if you don’t communicate, you can never heal and you can never build your relationship into something that is beautiful and rewarding. Communication is the key to every good relationship.
We will also examine the seven critical dimensions to a good relationship.
GOAL 3: Negotiating a Renewed Relationship –
Understanding How to Rebuild and Sustain a New, Trust-filled Partnership
Once you learn how to talk to one another again, learn how to renegotiate your relationship.
This VIP Day can be a stand alone recovery day to get you off to the right start to healing or it can be a perfect introduction to my intensive coaching program for couples where you can do deeper work and keep yourselves on pace for success. It can also be a fantastic refresher for those who have gone through the coaching program.
It will require time, focus and commitment to self and each other.
But isn’t saving your relationship worth that investment?
Kendal, what if I am no longer with the partner that cheated on me or me on them? Or what if I am single or my partner cannot or is unwilling to attend? Should I still come?
Great Questions! Yes you should come. This VIP day will help you to break old patterns and release pain and anger from old relationships so that you can fully enjoy a new relationship with your new partner without the old baggage creeping in causing issues that are not really there.
If for any reason, your current partner cannot make the workshop or does not want, know that the skills that you will learn in this day will benefit the healing and transformation of your relationship allowing you to access levels of communication, trust and love that you could not before.
ONLY $249 Per Couple
Open to Single’s As Well – If Your in a relationship and want to heal but your partner cannot make the class or is currently not interested but your looking for tools. You are welcome to join! – $179/single’s