coaching
Raya: “The world’s broken. You can’t trust anyone.” Sisu: “Maybe it’s broken because you don’t trust anyone.”
-Disney’s “Raya & The Last Dragon”
I sat watching this movie in the theatre with some of my favorite munchkins (aka kids).
I watched as the story evolved into a story about trust and conversely a lack of trust in this dystopian land. The way to saving their world came down to trusting those around them.
As the characters stated the above quote…
It really rang true to my heart…
For our society as a whole right now but even more so, for the the state of our personal relationships. Read more
This year has been a year of moments…
Like all years are filled with moments
But this year we have been pushed to truly take stock and lean into appreciation of the moments we’ve been given.
All the moments. The ones that fill our hearts with joy and peace and the moments that we are brought to our knees with pain and heartache.
This year has simply provided us a chance to lean into our moments and see them for what they are… lessons and blessings.
It has been a year of us having to WAKE TF UP!!! Read more
Tale as old as time….
I feel as my body melts into the ground below me as I become one with the earth. My breath begins to expand out and each exhale shakes the energies within.
I am engulfed by this energetic snake as it slides up my torso, leaving behind it a trail of fire and yet euphoric sensations throughout not just my physical body but my energetic body. Read more

And sometimes this is exactly what a deeply spiritual moment or message feels like to us.
It can be those moments where we are so in need of light and love that it comes to us at just the right moment! Read more
Sometimes you just need to STOP IT!!
You just need to STOP your SHIZ!
& Get over it!!!
I know!!! 😟
Today, I watch as fruit and vegetables were used as some of the best sex toys around!!!
Lol, I ran my yearly Oral Intimacies in-person Workshop (there is a recorded version available on my site)
And for the lab/demo portion of this class we make use of cucumbers and mangos.
Myself and my co-teacher ask each individual to tap into the sensations within their bodies as they both give and receive. Now there is zero touching in this workshop and yet we hear again and again how it was incredibly erotic. Read more
“I just want someone to sincerely love and adore me…
I just want someone that sees me and helps without question…
I just want someone that loves me even in my bad…
I just want someone that wants to see me truly shine…
I just want someone that surprises me and thinks about me…”
You look to the sky and pray to receive love Read more

“How dare you love yourself! Stop it and stop it now”
How dare you take a picture of yourself and want to share your beautiful smile with the world.
How dare you be excited about your life and want to share the excitement that you are feeling.
How dare you be proud of your accomplishments and take pride in your work.
How dare you charge money for your years of expertise and training.
You really should dull your shine so that I feel better and that I don’t have to really take a look at how I am not living up to my own potential.