Do you love them or do you love what they do for you?
Get honest.
Even more honest.
This is just between you and yourself.
coaching
What if J.K. Rowling gave up and listened to all the rejection letters. Never started writing those notes on a napkin about a character named Harry Potter?
The world would be missing out on a series that has given such joy and imagination to people old and young. It would have never inspired so many to pick up a book and go inside to see a world within their own mind!
Don’t make it so complicated!
At the end of the day all our dreams, goals, and desires come back to us wanting to FEEL GOOD.
We want laughter, joy, pleasure, freedom, love, and every other yummy juicy emotion.
Our soul goals are all about feeling and experiencing.
Yet we think that we have to wait.
Wait for that trip
Wait for that event
Wait for the money
Wait for the relationship
Hands shaking and sweaty
Stomach caught between butterflies and doing a gymnastics routine
I was really going to do this!
Why am I doing this?
I had a room full of people staring at me and I had some choices.
There are SO many things that you desire to fix about yourself
There are SO many goals that you still haven’t stepped into fully
There are SO many mistakes you are making every single day
You go to bed and wondering if you will ever get it “right”!
You are choosing the relationships that are keeping you stuck.
Yes, most of us choose relationships that are comfortable but not comfortable in the sense that we feel seen, heard, and understood. No, we choose relationships that are comfortable in the way that we don’t have to push ourselves and grow.
Welcome to the adventure that is your life.
We are born and then from the moment we take our first breath to the second we breathe our last we are truly on an adventure.
An adventure of feeling and experiencing
You can’t jump right in!
You have to make her feel you
You have to slowly earn her trust
You have to stroke her heart until she opens
It started with some grumbles
Okay, if I’m honest that’s ALL it started with…grumbles and cursing under my breath!
I didn’t really desire to do this!!
And that was the whole point.
I could be getting this or that done my ego screamed.
I’m done.
Yup, done with my own bullshit.
I just decided.
It took me a whole 30 seconds to make the decision.
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