When we have kids or are around kids, it’s pretty common sense that if they ask a question or aren’t understanding a perspective, that we will talk at “their level”.
As a coach, I do this daily with clients because while pushing my clients to grow, I also recognize that they are all at different stage in their lives. More than that though, I realize that their experiences and foundations are different.
Though in my daily life with lovers, family, and friends. Sometimes I make efforts too come at those I love with the same understanding and at other times…
Well let’s just say that I lose this perspective.
The perspective of talking and understanding others from where they are at mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, not just to appease them but to expand self.
When we lose sight of that fact that every person has a different foundation and thus different neurological patterns for how they process and act, we lose sight of the other person.
Not only do we lose sight of the other person but we close down our own growth process but we also step into a space of self-centered. Centered in our own thoughts, feelings, desires, and not willing to open that view to anyone else.
And it’s a common thing in most relationships!!

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TᕼE Oᒪᗪ ᗯOᗰᗩᑎ TᕼᗩT ᑕᕼᗩᑎGEᗪ ᗰY ᗪᗩY!
 
 
The self-analysis was strong with me this morning!
 
I woke up in a strange energy and knew I needed to give myself some space for processing of some recent realizations.
 
So instead of forcing myself to do work that was not aligned, I ended up at my favorite park.
 
Despite trying to pull my brain back to my body and the present moment….
 
Off it ran during the walk to criticize myself about some recent situations. I ended up in complete analysis paralysis.

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YOᑌᖇ ᐯOIᑕE Iᔕᑎ’T TᗩᗷOO

You want change and success but you’re scared to speak
You’re afraid to open up to your heart, your soul, and that childlike state deep within, that is a piece of who makes you, YOU.

You choose not to share your voice calling it taboo…
Whether that’s a topic in a relationship, a business idea, or even being you.
Because underneath you think YOU, are the real taboo!

You don’t want to be “too much”, “too crazy”, “too needy”, “too emotional”, “too real”

And so you have crammed yourself into being LESS
Emotion-less
Inspiration-less
Heart-less
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“When we realize that we are all sinners needing forgiveness, it will be easy for us to forgive others.”- Mother Theresa, ‘No Greater Love’
 
The last few days I’ve spent time re-reading and meditating with one of my favorite books (“No Greater Love by Mother Theresa), to tap me into my heart and to Christ Consciousness.
 
The above quote, while simple, is so very true!
 
And more than ever I believe this sentiments on forgiveness to be important to our society.

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Others will never see!
The other day I found myself sharing about my childhood home and the tiny little community I grew up in. At one point I even pulled up pictures and maps to explain what I was talking about. This other person of course heard me but the picture in his head was NOT the picture I saw in my own head.
Later that same day I found myself with tears streaming down my face as I was attempting to share a sensitive memory with a friend. A person that knows me better than anyone else in my life. Yet, the words that I was trying to share were not getting through the knot that I felt in my chest and the memory that was right behind my eyes. I stumbled over words and tried to dance around painting a picture but knowing that whatever picture I painted would NEVER truly explain the immensity of the memory.
And as I sat later listening to someone else share on a here and now type situation that was swirling and consuming their lives…

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What if these are the moments?
The moments that you will look back on and remember how transformative they were for your life.
What if these moments are the moments that you will look back upon and remember all the little things that made you smile?
What if these are the moments and you are allowing the worry and the fear to focus your attention on the stress and tension in your life instead of the moments that are heartfelt and loving?
This is a time of stress for so many in not just our country but in the world. Many are feeling pushed in a variety of different ways and it is that feeling of the Universe pushing…pushing…pushing.
And so it can be so easy to let the energies take us over and overshadow all our blessings. To get caught up in the swirling energies of negativity, stress, and drama.
And it’s not that we can’t be real with ourselves and recognize these energies.
I’m not suggesting that we shut off the learnings of these energies that are in our current world. Not suggesting to hide from our emotions and create some fake rainbows and sunshine B.S.

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You’re never going to get that person back and you’re grasping and grabbing is pointless.
So let it go!

This graby, low-vibing, wishing energy is only holding you back from what you could have in this world and all the joys that are yours for the taking. These moments of nostalgia and wishing is only keeping you from the now.

What am I referring to?

The desire to hold someone frozen in a place and time.
This is our desire to get someone we are in relationship with to be that “old person”
Or in desiring for ourselves to be the person we once were.

We can never go back.
Thats not a life direction… EVER!
We are always moving forward.

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You are so amazing.

You have taught me so much!

You have been a blessing to my life.

I have such love for you and your beautiful soul.

And so I’m letting you go.

I’m letting you go in love.

I’m holding onto the beautiful memories and moments

And forever I will carry the lessons you’ve given me in my heart.

But I’m still letting you go. Read more

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I’m incredibly thankful for 2020!

This morning I woke up bright and early to a sweet kitten purring beside me and giving me morning sleepy eyes as she snuggled in close.

I then headed off to have my morning walk with a friend that is more like family as we shared about our lives and all the abundance that is present.

Then I open my email to messages of love and gratitude from clients that are expanding and reawakening before my very eyes.

And I am again reminded of how very blessed I am and how despite 2020 being a different kind of a year… it’s been a good year.

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