Expansion Coach, Expert Author, Tantric Practitioner
You’re either healing her or traumatizing her with your sex.
There is no middle ground.
There are shades and degrees to which you can either traumatize her or heal her but in each encounter you are doing one or the other.
And most men are doing more trauma than healing! Read more
You don’t want to look at it.
You don’t want to feel it.
You hardly want to admit it’s there at all!
You instead want to convince yourself and those around you that you are “fine”. You are high-vibing and doing great. You are focused on the positives.
Are they needy or are you just faking the effort of love?
You say that your partner is needy…
You claim they are never satisfied
You swear that you are “trying”
And so you smack them with a label of needy Read more
Stop worrying about not growing.
You will grow. That’s inevitable!
There truly is no way for you as a human not to grow.
Each morning we wake up and even if we have the same routine day in and day out, we are always looking at the world in a new light, taking in new information, and learning bout ourselves. Growing!
There is so much love all around you.
Every day the world awakens and is ready to love on you.
There are people who are ready to raise you high and mirror all your strengths.
There is a love that rains down from spirit that is made of pure love.
Pure, undiluted love.
There is this woman…
I can’t help but smile when I see her
Sometimes she looks a mess.
While some times she is dressed to impress.
Anxiety is not a catchall for your lack of willingness to step TF up!
Not my usual post but…
Let me start this by sharing that I had a long a torturous journey with anxiety myself. I went through deep panic attacks and would feel the terror in my body frequently growing up. I was diagnosed over and over again with several different anxiety disorders.
The physical aspect of the sexing is… pretty good.
Not the best as we work around momentary physical challenges in our bodies.
Working to get into a rhythm and position that both arouse and is comfortable.
I feel us both floating in and out of presence…
Into our fear, into our uncertainty, into our ego’s
But again and again we
Continue to call each other back from the inner world that is calling
Back into our bodies and back into connection.
A calling back each time we see the other drift.
Today instead of looking at ALL that you still need to do, create, and become over the next year and decade…
Take the time to see ALL that you already are in your life.
See ALL your beautiful gifts and energies that you are giving to the world and ALL that still lies within. Take time to revel in ALL that you have accomplished over the last year and decade and standing in the inner knowing that you will continue to grow and expand. And that you get too direct that growth and expansion by tuning into your core.
Feel into that place of already having the feelings and emotions of the abundant life that you are opening up to each day. Doesn’t matter if you are reaching for better sex, a relationship, better career, or more financial abundance.
Instead choose to live your new year as if It is already here!!!
