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31May202002Jun2020

Amazing Words of Bullshiz

Addison Bell Uncategorized emotions, expansion, Follow through, growth, guidance, resentment, respect, tantra, trust, words

You speak amazing words of bullsh*t!

You share on how you are committed to holding space
You share on how you love this person or that person
Your intentions to help and support
Your intentions to get this project done
Or that all someone has to do is ask…
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28May202002Jun2020

Dark Clouds or Blue Skies?

Addison Bell Uncategorized desire, emotion, energy, expansion, focus, forward movement, growth, law of attraction, tantra

Where’s your focus?

Are you focusing on that little bit of blue sky or are you focusing on all the clouds that are surround. The clouds that could quickly melt away with enough radiance from the sun?

And you might be saying, “No, I’m focusing on the good”

But if you look at your life is that truly the case?

Maybe, yes (way to rock it out!)

Maybe, no (we can simply refocus)

26May202002Jun2020

It’s Your Path Alone

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, expansion, growth, path

Live for the Life You Were Called Towards

The naysayers and voices around you might be loud.
Telling you that you can’t make it and that you are ruining your life with the choice to follow your heart.
Making the choice to put self first.
To put more quality into your life.

26May202002Jun2020

Recover Your Life

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, desire, expansion, expansion coaching, guidance, healing, recover your life, tantra

These pictures were taken right before I started my personal tantric work and hired my mentor.

I remember thinking I was happy. I was still teaching dance and on my went to our annual recital where I also was performing (hence the weird bow).

That girl is not the woman that stands before you today.
My connection to my sex was non-existent!
My connection to my body was only from the standpoint of hatred and anger.
I lived in a state of overworking as a therapist, dance teacher, and nanny. Read more →

04May2020

Anger Required!

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, anger, emotons, expansion, growth, Inner Work, love, relationships, shadow, shadow work, tantra, unconditional love

You claim to love someone
You share with them that they matter and swear to be able to love them through their pain and sadness and be rejoicing with them in times of triumph.

But can you really keep that promise?
Do you REALLY want all of them?

For most, the truest answer would be NO! Read more →

21Apr2020

God wants Open Relationships

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, Addison Unleashed, desire, expansion, God, growth, open relationships, opening, polyamory

You say that you could never do open relationship.

That you find it wrong and not natural.
You think it could never work and that it isn’t aligned with real intimate relationships.
You point to moral objections within your religious doctrines Read more →

16Apr2020

The Divine Romance

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, Addison Unleashed, connection, desire, divine, dreams, expansion, feminine, goals, God, gratitude, love, masculine, relationships, romance

Its early afternoon and my day has been flowing and bright. It is one of those days that I look into my world and I feel an immense gratitude for life itself arise in my chest. I’m soaking in the sun, the breeze, and connecting to my heart.

Feeling I have so much love to give and share.

Allowing anything that holds me back from this to flow into the earth. Connecting with my heart, my sex, and my core to stir the beautiful energy.

06Apr2020

To the Un-Orgasmic Woman

Addison Bell Uncategorized Addison Bell, Addison Unleashed, bedroom, expansion, growth, life orgasmic, orgasm, orgasmic, relationships, sex, woman, women

To the Woman that Isn’t Orgasmic…

Darling, this is a story you’ve been telling way too long. Every woman is orgasmic. Every woman has that fire within that burns in her very core.

Right now it might feel dim and be hard to locate but I promise that it’s there. It’s right there smoldering like an ember about to take flame. Read more →

01Apr202004Apr2020

Sexual Trauma or Healing

Addison Bell Uncategorized expansion, growth, healing, masculine, men, sex, sexual healing, tantra, trauma, women

You’re either healing her or traumatizing her with your sex.

There is no middle ground.
There are shades and degrees to which you can either traumatize her or heal her but in each encounter you are doing one or the other.

And most men are doing more trauma than healing! Read more →

11Mar202004Apr2020

To See the Darkness

Addison Bell Uncategorized darkness, energy, expansion, growth, light, love, movement, shadow

You don’t want to look at it.
You don’t want to feel it.
You hardly want to admit it’s there at all!

You instead want to convince yourself and those around you that you are “fine”. You are high-vibing and doing great. You are focused on the positives.