When we have kids or are around kids, it’s pretty common sense that if they ask a question or aren’t understanding a perspective, that we will talk at “their level”.
As a coach, I do this daily with clients because while pushing my clients to grow, I also recognize that they are all at different stage in their lives. More than that though, I realize that their experiences and foundations are different.
Though in my daily life with lovers, family, and friends. Sometimes I make efforts too come at those I love with the same understanding and at other times…
Well let’s just say that I lose this perspective.
The perspective of talking and understanding others from where they are at mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, not just to appease them but to expand self.
When we lose sight of that fact that every person has a different foundation and thus different neurological patterns for how they process and act, we lose sight of the other person.
Not only do we lose sight of the other person but we close down our own growth process but we also step into a space of self-centered. Centered in our own thoughts, feelings, desires, and not willing to open that view to anyone else.
And it’s a common thing in most relationships!!

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Yesterday I finally looked at my lesson and my expansion which all came in the form of this lower back tattoo. I gave a huge smile and a sigh of relief. FINALLY!
 
It isn’t a big or overly complex piece of work but it holds deep meaning for me. It had been a massive process and one that would lead me on a journey of self empowerment.
 

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You stand there frozen…
Frozen in a life YOU, yes you, have chosen.
 
Unable to see where and how to move…
Unwilling to take off your chains and see the freedom that awaits you.
 
It is your overthinking that does it to you
Your constant looping of the same thoughts and beliefs that brought you here. Here to this place to confinement.
 
Confinement in your own head and thus life

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You are locking your own energy down.
 
There is something in you that is scared to let your energy flow and to truly receive at that deeper level.
 
The self-made handcuffs feel more comfortable than making a choice to truly release.
 
And most likely you don’t even realize you are locked down. You have gotten so comfortable sitting in the energy you are currently locked into that you don’t even realize that you wear chains.
 

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When was the last time you spent even just 2 mins looking into your own eyes?

I don’t mean glancing! I mean truly peering into your own depth and soul that your eyes carry.

The type of gaze where you breathe in an just allow all thoughts to melt away and you are left solely with self. Where the fog begins to roll in and you allow your third eye to remind you who you truly are.

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