Expansion Coach, Expert Author, Tantric Practitioner
As a Sex & relationship Coach, it is always interesting interacting with others on my social media accounts because of the ways it shines a light on many of the very reasons we struggle in today’s society with relationships.
You would think that this would only be true of those that grew up since the stir of social media but this is not the case! The dysfunctional relational dynamics across generations becomes very apparent on platforms such as Facebook.
Stop worrying about not growing.
You will grow. That’s inevitable!
There truly is no way for you as a human not to grow.
Each morning we wake up and even if we have the same routine day in and day out, we are always looking at the world in a new light, taking in new information, and learning bout ourselves. Growing!
All I can do is be HERE….In this moment.
Opening my heart and loving you.
Holding fierce space.
But I can not “fix” you.
Why?
Because there is nothing to fix.
You are not broken. You are just in process. Read more
Men. My beautiful and sweet men.
Most of you have so much going for you!
You really do.
A heart that desire for depth and deeper intimacy with a woman.
You sit in classes and workshops trying to learn all the right ways to please your woman and guide her to a state of ecstasy. You aren’t okay with wham bam thank you ma’am anymore. Read more
If there is anything I’ve learned in my years as a sex & relationship coach, its that at the core of each and every one of us, we desire to love and be loved.
No matter how shut down we may appear
No matter how much we fake being “fine” alone
No matter how much love we have or have not received in the past
No matter WHAT!!! Read more
There is so much love all around you.
Every day the world awakens and is ready to love on you.
There are people who are ready to raise you high and mirror all your strengths.
There is a love that rains down from spirit that is made of pure love.
Pure, undiluted love.
Your relationships, all of your relationships, need moderate effort most of the time.
Not 10% and not 100% effort.
I was standing in yoga when the instructor reminded us to engage in a pose with moderate effort.
If we threw 100% then we would not be able to sustain
If we threw out 10% then we would not be stretching and expanding.
And I thought how this relates to our relationships.
Make a change!
Just jump!
Don’t wait.
Don’t think.
Even if you aren’t certain it will turn out perfect. Just choose to make a change.