As a Sex & relationship Coach, it is always interesting interacting with others on my social media accounts because of the ways it shines a light on many of the very reasons we struggle in today’s society with relationships.

You would think that this would only be true of those that grew up since the stir of social media but this is not the case! The dysfunctional relational dynamics across generations becomes very apparent on platforms such as Facebook.

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There is a boat… are you on it?
 
Often times clients will sit in front of me and share that they are missing passion, excitement, and true desire in their lives. They look around and their world feels boring and mundane.
 
As we begin to dive into coaching work it often becomes clear that they aren’t allowing dreams and desires into their reality. They sit there stating they want to be happier and to live an orgasmic life… but they don’t stop to dream about what that ideal life would truly look like for them.

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Stop worrying about not growing.
You will grow. That’s inevitable!
There truly is no way for you as a human not to grow.

Each morning we wake up and even if we have the same routine day in and day out, we are always looking at the world in a new light, taking in new information, and learning bout ourselves. Growing!

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Men. My beautiful and sweet men.

Most of you have so much going for you!
You really do.

A heart that desire for depth and deeper intimacy with a woman.

You sit in classes and workshops trying to learn all the right ways to please your woman and guide her to a state of ecstasy. You aren’t okay with wham bam thank you ma’am anymore. Read more

Your relationships, all of your relationships, need moderate effort most of the time.
Not 10% and not 100% effort.

I was standing in yoga when the instructor reminded us to engage in a pose with moderate effort.

If we threw 100% then we would not be able to sustain
If we threw out 10% then we would not be stretching and expanding.
And I thought how this relates to our relationships.

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