Expansion Coach, Expert Author, Tantric Practitioner
It’s already seeping in for some.
The depression.
The sadness.
The struggle with mental health.
I’m already hearing stories of the darkness that is enveloping people’s minds in our current world situation.
When we are forced to stop our normal hustle and bustle then we must be with self. We must be with our entire selves and all the intricate pieces.
You don’t want to look at it.
You don’t want to feel it.
You hardly want to admit it’s there at all!
You instead want to convince yourself and those around you that you are “fine”. You are high-vibing and doing great. You are focused on the positives.
I’m only human.
I can’t read your mind and you can’t read mine.
We must verbalize and share our hearts to know one another at the next level.
To understand and have a better viewpoint of why we say or do the things in our lives… we must speak and not assume.
You and I can both make up stories in our heads about intentions and desires, but most of the time we are wrong.
Are they needy or are you just faking the effort of love?
You say that your partner is needy…
You claim they are never satisfied
You swear that you are “trying”
And so you smack them with a label of needy Read more
All I can do is be HERE….In this moment.
Opening my heart and loving you.
Holding fierce space.
But I can not “fix” you.
Why?
Because there is nothing to fix.
You are not broken. You are just in process. Read more
Men. My beautiful and sweet men.
Most of you have so much going for you!
You really do.
A heart that desire for depth and deeper intimacy with a woman.
You sit in classes and workshops trying to learn all the right ways to please your woman and guide her to a state of ecstasy. You aren’t okay with wham bam thank you ma’am anymore. Read more
If there is anything I’ve learned in my years as a sex & relationship coach, its that at the core of each and every one of us, we desire to love and be loved.
No matter how shut down we may appear
No matter how much we fake being “fine” alone
No matter how much love we have or have not received in the past
No matter WHAT!!! Read more
There is so much love all around you.
Every day the world awakens and is ready to love on you.
There are people who are ready to raise you high and mirror all your strengths.
There is a love that rains down from spirit that is made of pure love.
Pure, undiluted love.
Your relationships, all of your relationships, need moderate effort most of the time.
Not 10% and not 100% effort.
I was standing in yoga when the instructor reminded us to engage in a pose with moderate effort.
If we threw 100% then we would not be able to sustain
If we threw out 10% then we would not be stretching and expanding.
And I thought how this relates to our relationships.
There is this woman…
I can’t help but smile when I see her
Sometimes she looks a mess.
While some times she is dressed to impress.