When we have kids or are around kids, it’s pretty common sense that if they ask a question or aren’t understanding a perspective, that we will talk at “their level”.
As a coach, I do this daily with clients because while pushing my clients to grow, I also recognize that they are all at different stage in their lives. More than that though, I realize that their experiences and foundations are different.
Though in my daily life with lovers, family, and friends. Sometimes I make efforts too come at those I love with the same understanding and at other times…
Well let’s just say that I lose this perspective.
The perspective of talking and understanding others from where they are at mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, not just to appease them but to expand self.
When we lose sight of that fact that every person has a different foundation and thus different neurological patterns for how they process and act, we lose sight of the other person.
Not only do we lose sight of the other person but we close down our own growth process but we also step into a space of self-centered. Centered in our own thoughts, feelings, desires, and not willing to open that view to anyone else.
And it’s a common thing in most relationships!!

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In this life it all comes back to us!
 
We enter this world alone and with a unique path and purpose.
And while others often walk with us on the journey at the end of the day this life is ours alone. These other path walkers are part of our purpose and our guides if we choose to accept them.
 
Though this entire life comes back to the world first within each of us.
 
We can only love, and connect at the level to which we have loved, and connected with ourselves. We can only grow and expand by first touching base within and noticing the alignment required.
 
Each and every one of us can go out and live and love from our most authentic selves and we will still at times be misunderstood.

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Raya: “The world’s broken. You can’t trust anyone.” Sisu: “Maybe it’s broken because you don’t trust anyone.”
-Disney’s “Raya & The Last Dragon”

I sat watching this movie in the theatre with some of my favorite munchkins (aka kids).
I watched as the story evolved into a story about trust and conversely a lack of trust in this dystopian land. The way to saving their world came down to trusting those around them.

As the characters stated the above quote…
It really rang true to my heart…

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You have the most beautiful soul.
Look into the depth of your eyes and you will find your core.
Deep down beyond all the drama and trauma.
Past the ego and the protective layers.
 
That is where you are.
That is who you are.
 
This egoic world pulls you this way and that…
Telling you who you are and what you are.
Pointing fingers and taking blame.
Beating up others and ripping apart from self.
 
Allowing the energies around you too slow transform you away from that person beneath the surface that is your truth.

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TᕼE Oᒪᗪ ᗯOᗰᗩᑎ TᕼᗩT ᑕᕼᗩᑎGEᗪ ᗰY ᗪᗩY!
 
 
The self-analysis was strong with me this morning!
 
I woke up in a strange energy and knew I needed to give myself some space for processing of some recent realizations.
 
So instead of forcing myself to do work that was not aligned, I ended up at my favorite park.
 
Despite trying to pull my brain back to my body and the present moment….
 
Off it ran during the walk to criticize myself about some recent situations. I ended up in complete analysis paralysis.

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“When we realize that we are all sinners needing forgiveness, it will be easy for us to forgive others.”- Mother Theresa, ‘No Greater Love’
 
The last few days I’ve spent time re-reading and meditating with one of my favorite books (“No Greater Love by Mother Theresa), to tap me into my heart and to Christ Consciousness.
 
The above quote, while simple, is so very true!
 
And more than ever I believe this sentiments on forgiveness to be important to our society.

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Love is Not Equal.
When you love someone it is unique. Unique to your energy, your personality, your lifestyle and that other person.
Yet, so many wish and desire and even tear relationships apart because the love isn’t equal.
How would one even measure such a thing? How to you measure the energy of love?
In roses? In calls/texts made? In time spent? In services provided?
Lately the topic of inequality of love has come up again and again with my clients, family, and friends.
I had a client other day, and then shortly after a friend ask me the same thing…
“Why am I the one that always has to reach out?”

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Love in our lives isn’t…
a sometimes…
a when…
a condition.
Love is a consistent energy that must be vibrationally met and also connected with on consistent basis throughout our day.
Its an energy that we first must plug into within ourselves and within spirit. We must feel this immensity and allow it to fill our very beings and flow through us.
Flowing through us to those in our lives…
NO MATTER WHAT

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The world reality won’t change until you change your reality of the world.
This year I’ve heard and read so much about the new world reality and the shifting energies we are experiencing.
And how the energies are going to shift our consciousness…
BAM!
New people & New world.
And I know I just terribly simplified deep and complex energetic transitions that really are happening in our world.
Yet, many sit twiddling their thumbs…
Continuing to step into anger and hatred
Continuing to feed themselves toxins mind, body, and soul
Continuing to do the same things they’ve always done and interact with the world in the same old way
and they wait for this massive awakening to pop into their world.
And while we can shift in a moments time… WE must choose the shift and more times then not, we must ENGAGE to active that shift.

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Spirituality is uplifting until you use it as a weapon to back bad behaviors.
 
The last few weeks this concept has been stirring in my brain. Not quite fully formed as I fought with myself in perfect Virgo style of wanting to see all sides of a situation.
 
But I also have been in observance mode.
Observance mode of how we use our spiritual tools and concepts to back our negative behaviors…
 
To disconnect from our fellow man
To create even more judgment
To feel superior
And to back our laziness to put true effort into our lives and relationships.

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