Your relationships, all of your relationships, need moderate effort most of the time.
Not 10% and not 100% effort.

I was standing in yoga when the instructor reminded us to engage in a pose with moderate effort.

If we threw 100% then we would not be able to sustain
If we threw out 10% then we would not be stretching and expanding.
And I thought how this relates to our relationships.

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The physical aspect of the sexing is… pretty good.

Not the best as we work around momentary physical challenges in our bodies.

Working to get into a rhythm and position that both arouse and is comfortable.

I feel us both floating in and out of presence…
Into our fear, into our uncertainty, into our ego’s
But again and again we
Continue to call each other back from the inner world that is calling
Back into our bodies and back into connection.
A calling back each time we see the other drift.

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The parts you don’t show
 
The pieces of yourself that you tuck far away from the world to truly see.
 
The parts that you deem to be goofy
The aspects that leave you feeling unclean
The fire that you tamp down to fall in line
The tears that come at night that you hide

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Ladies!!! Ladies! Let’s Chat…
 
Recently I’ve had a slew of truly beautiful men come into my office and share similar statements and experiences.
 
Experiences where women are not willing to take any time on their male partners.
Not kissing them.
Not touching them.
Not stroking them.
 
Zero Foreplay!!!
Zero Pre-Work Connection!!!

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