Expansion Coach, Expert Author, Tantric Practitioner
Your relationships, all of your relationships, need moderate effort most of the time.
Not 10% and not 100% effort.
I was standing in yoga when the instructor reminded us to engage in a pose with moderate effort.
If we threw 100% then we would not be able to sustain
If we threw out 10% then we would not be stretching and expanding.
And I thought how this relates to our relationships.
There is this woman…
I can’t help but smile when I see her
Sometimes she looks a mess.
While some times she is dressed to impress.
Show up as yourself.
You just have to be you.
ALL of you…
The beautiful, the messy, the emotional, the joyous.
Some will love you, some will hate you
The physical aspect of the sexing is… pretty good.
Not the best as we work around momentary physical challenges in our bodies.
Working to get into a rhythm and position that both arouse and is comfortable.
I feel us both floating in and out of presence…
Into our fear, into our uncertainty, into our ego’s
But again and again we
Continue to call each other back from the inner world that is calling
Back into our bodies and back into connection.
A calling back each time we see the other drift.
Don’t worry about it…
There really isn’t anything I want..
Don’t waste your money on me…
So…
You don’t want anything for Christmas.
(or your bday, valentines day, or other day of the year)
I see you…
Standing there.
Steady. Stable. Unmoving.
In your self affirming cage…
Comfy and cozy.
Verbalizing that you want to get out
And yet not taking any action
Not pushing forward with any force.
